farmpond1 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 This is a rather rhetorical question since I pretty much know the answer but I'll ask it anyway. What would you say are the most important qualities in a good fishing partner? Quote
Super User roadwarrior Posted January 8, 2008 Super User Posted January 8, 2008 Compatibility. My partner likes to fish as much or more than me; drinks beer all day; used to smoke, now chews; cares about BIG fish only; fishes high-end gear and owns a boat I helped pick out. I let him operate the boat so long as I am always in the perfect spot. He bought a cabin for himself and his family, but I have my own room. We also have kids that are almost the same age and grown. We both like to eat large and drink wine and/or whisky at night. Coincidently, we even have comparable homes, cars, trucks and SUVs. I get along better with my partner than my wife! Quote
Masshole Mike Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 pretty much what RW said. i go fishing with my sister's boyfriend a lot, but if we didn't get along or have the same interests i probably wouldn't enjoy it. i think something that makes a good fishing partner is one you can learn from. my sister's boyfriend, joe, has taught me a lot about fishing, and along with the endless info obtained/retained from this site i've learned more than i ever knew there was to know, and i learn something new every time i log on here or take a trip out with joe. i think that's one of the most important aspects of having a partner to go fishing with. Quote
farmpond1 Posted January 8, 2008 Author Posted January 8, 2008 Certainly, compatibility is important. I've noticed over the years that with some people, no matter how hard I try to get along, it's always a struggle, and with others, it's an absolute breeze. And being on a boat all day with someone will easily separate the sheep from the goats. I've found a good trait to possess is humility. I've had fishing buddies who could fish circles around me. But I never minded because they carried it off with grace and humility. And then there are others who make me grit my teeth with every fish they catch. Sore winners are probably worse than sore losers. Quote
detroit1 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 There's a lot of guys on this site that i would love to fish with. Unfortunate for me , i know more about fishing than the people i take out, so i don't get to be the pupil, just the teacher. My wife is a good fishing partner- she sunbathes and reads in the back of the boat and i can fish anywhere or anyhow i want. RW...those smallies look like fun and i could drive the 650 miles.... Quote
Thefishy1 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Someone who knows where all the fish are, but does not know how to catch them. ;D But seriously, soneone who is easy to get along with and funny is MUCH easier to fish with than people who are not. Oh and someone who has patience. Ive taught classes on fishing to groups of 10-20 twelve year olds, and my god they have about 0 patience whatsoever, save a few of them Quote
RobDar Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 patience, flexibility, and not take things so seriously that he/she spends all day cranky....and for God's sake there is no belly-achin allowed on my boat! If you need to whine about the cruelty in life get a priest. Quote
Ifish4keeps Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 Well, the person should have a good sense of humor, know a lot about bassin' and and be as addicted to fishing as me! Quote
Super User WRB Posted January 8, 2008 Super User Posted January 8, 2008 Willing to pay all the bills and stay home. WRB Quote
crazy4bass1 Posted January 8, 2008 Posted January 8, 2008 a good fishing partner is someone who catches less fish then me ;D lol Quote
Low_Budget_Hooker Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Gotta know how to manipulate bosses and work schedules to be able to free up on a few hours notice. sense of humor, no doubt. Camera ability and someone willing to give some thought to the shot is a plus I prefer if our styles compliment each others as opposed to a copy cat. The goal in my boat is to be successful as a team. It's the anglers against the fish, not each other. PUNCTUALITY AND DEPENDABILITY. 3:15am is 3:15 am, by 3:30, I'm fishing alone. This highly affects the odds of a future invite. Need to be out there for the same reason as me, to enjoy the moment for all it has to offer. Catching is not mandatory for a successful trip although "skunking" is very uncommon. Quote
Super User flechero Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 Compatibility. My partner likes to fish as much or more than me; drinks beer all day; used to smoke, now chews; cares about BIG fish only; fishes high-end gear and owns a boat I helped pick out. I let him operate the boat so long as I am always in the perfect spot. He bought a cabin for himself and his family, but I have my own room. We also have kids that are almost the same age and grown. We both like to eat large and drink wine and/or whisky at night. Coincidently, we even have comparable homes, cars, trucks and SUVs. I get along better with my partner than my wife! That's one of the best posts I've seen here, and that's why he's your partner and she's your wife!! ...lol Strictly from experience I have to say punctuality... matters a lot also. My partner is. When I say meet at boat storage at 5 am, we both pull in about 10-15 till to load. Never spoken of it, it just happens- every single time. We normally make it to the ramp at the time we were supposed to meet. Add to that, we both like similar techniques, lakes, conditions and beer... we get along almost as well as RW and his partner. Quote
Super User RoLo Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 I look for two important traits in a fishing companion, and two traits that I hope he will find in me. I like to see a strong passion for fishing, and also someone who can feel happy every time a fish comes over the rail, no matter whose rod is bending. Then of course there are your Standard Rules of Boating Etiquette: > No getting seasick > No bellyaching about mosquitos and gnats > No fretting over alligators and snakes > Never doubt the boat's ability in heavy seas > No getting tired before dark ;D ;D ;D Roger Quote
skillet Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I never know until I've been fishing with someone :-/... As Ever, skillet Quote
Super User Catt Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 What makes a good fishing partner? My best friend Quote
Guest muddy Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Sense of Humor Doesnt drink or get loaded in any fashion Dependable Can pass gas with the best of em Will go fishin at the drop of a hat AT MY AGE; HAS TO PEE SOME WHAT FREQUENTLY AND DOESN'T MIND A FEW TRIPS TO THE SHORE Quote
Super User Redlinerobert Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 I have to say that next to my dad, whom I love dearly AND love to fish with, Gidget is the best fishing partner I could ever hope for. She can catch fish. She makes a mean sandwich. No problem getting up at 3:30 am. Never complains. Kisses fish on the release. Oh and did I mention she can drink tequila with the best of 'um? Quote
Super User MALTESE FALCON Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 Dependable Punctual Dosen't complain Good sense of humor Nice legs That's why my wife has always been my favorite fishing partner. Oh, by the way, she can catch fish too. Falcon Quote
Super User SPEEDBEAD. Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 I have to say that next to my dad, whom I love dearly AND love to fish with, Gidget is the best fishing partner I could ever hope for. She can catch fish. She makes a mean sandwich. No problem getting up at 3:30 am. Never complains. Kisses fish on the release. Oh and did I mention she can drink tequila with the best of 'um? Yeah, well the view aint too bad either.... I will fish with just about anyone once. How they act in the boat will determine if that calls for a second trip. Quote
jwo1124 Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 I think the biggest attribute for me, as someone already pointed out, they have to have the same if not a bigger passion for fishing as you. I mostly fish by myself from shore since no one I know really likes fishing as much as I do. Then there are times I'll take my younger bro, when he has nothing better to do, and he enjoys catching fish, but he doesn't enjoy fishing for them. If we are out there for an hour and don;t get a bite he wants to call it a day. I actually prefer fishing by myself. To me, fishing is the least social activity there is. I like getting out there with just me and nature and seeing how many fishing I can coax onto my hook. I think the more I make it a social activity, the less focused I am on the fishing, and to me the day is measured by how successful I was. To an extent, just being outside under the sky enjoying nature is a success in it's own...but let's not kid ourselves. We don't drop a grand each season on new gear and spend hours reading articles to go outside and watch the ducks and the swans paddle around... Quote
farmpond1 Posted January 9, 2008 Author Posted January 9, 2008 Someone who knows where all the fish are, but does not know how to catch them. Too funny!!!! :D Quote
Super User Tin Posted January 9, 2008 Super User Posted January 9, 2008 Sit down, shut up, and hold on. lol Doesn't complain about bugs or the weather, someone you can learn something from (doesnt have to be a better fisherman than you), and can CAST so your not getting stuff off docks and out of trees all day. Quote
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