Super User Maxximus Redneckus Posted July 26, 2009 Super User Posted July 26, 2009 Long story short my house has been bought and split up between my brother and sister and i .1 yr ago my mom passed and none of was able to buy each other out .No money for a wweek or 2 but dam if i no where we are going and i have a baby on the way. some on my familey knows whats going on and dont have room or dont care all i know is im hopeful and optimistic never been in this situation and im worried with teh heat and all keeping my GF cool and my little girl happy and fed wish me luck all Quote
seyone Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 That's tuff man, hope everything works it self out Quote
skillet Posted July 26, 2009 Posted July 26, 2009 Heck of a time for it to sell ! Good Luck with a bad situation. Thoughts will be with you... skillet Quote
Super User skunked_again Posted July 27, 2009 Super User Posted July 27, 2009 d**n dude that sucks. best of luck to you and your family. Quote
daviscw Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 That's not good to hear at all. Best of luck, prayers sent! Quote
mattm Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 I'm confused. If the home was left to you and your siblings you are a part owner and must consent to any sale. Plus, recieve your share of the proceeds of any sale. How can someone sale something you own and you not benefit? Quote
Super User Maxximus Redneckus Posted July 27, 2009 Author Super User Posted July 27, 2009 I'm confused. If the home was left to you and your siblings you are a part owner and must consent to any sale. Plus, recieve your share of the proceeds of any sale. How can someone sale something you own and you not benefit? Hospital and bank were owed money by my mom ,my brother is executer of estate we do get 3rds but all happened so fast since it is going to be a cash buyout >And brother and sis want money bad .If i hadnt signed house woulda went to forclosure soon anyhow>My familey changed after my mom passed ,its sad no communication except this kinda stuff.I knew it was coming but so fast >.The woman buyin it had some lawyer write this "house has to be vacant" before bought BS .Its very hard times now to sell. House was appraised at 170 a yr ago down to 120 on over a acre ,so now they are getting the house as a bonus 70 yr old house aint worth much.Im still optimistic > going through my mom passing away was the hardist thing in my life and it has prepared me for this day .But im still worried/skeered no clue how to take care of a 18 month old and a pregant GF being homeless :'( Quote
mattm Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 If you get thirds isn't that 40 g's? I'm obviously missing something so I suggest you look into squatter rights. Quote
Super User Maxximus Redneckus Posted July 27, 2009 Author Super User Posted July 27, 2009 mattm i just read about them(squatter rights) basically it says until the deed is in her hands i could stay here ill bring that up . I wish it was 40g after the bank and hospital,court cost, lawyer fees, get there's i may walk away with 15g>i just hope its fast i mean if that money goes into the estate they don't just pay off who is owed then put what is divided on a back burner for 30 days 60 days ???? Quote
skillet Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 It's damned near unbelievable how people change after someone passes or a will is read... skillet Quote
Super User Grey Wolf Posted July 27, 2009 Super User Posted July 27, 2009 Sometimes life just sucks. Hang in there . Quote
Daniel My Brother Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Don't let your pride get in the way of doing what's best for your girlfriend and child. Call your local United Way today, explain your situation, and they will put you in touch with someone who can help. Quote
Bull Hurley Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 I know it doesn't help your situation at all but the easiest way is to take care of all this stuff while their still alive. All the property was split and signed over to myself and my sisters and my parents actually didn't own anything even the house. This way if some illness comes about and huge doctor bills there is no estate for them to come after. my mom is actually living in a house I own. Quote
aceman387 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 any chance the new owner would be willing to rent to you ,at least until you get your money and can buy your own house. Quote
Super User Dan: Posted July 27, 2009 Super User Posted July 27, 2009 I know it doesn't help your situation at all but the easiest way is to take care of all this stuff while their still alive. All the property was split and signed over to myself and my sisters and my parents actually didn't own anything even the house. This way if some illness comes about and huge doctor bills there is no estate for them to come after. my mom is actually living in a house I own. i would have never thought of that. Quote
llPa1nll Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 I know it doesn't help your situation at all but the easiest way is to take care of all this stuff while their still alive. All the property was split and signed over to myself and my sisters and my parents actually didn't own anything even the house. This way if some illness comes about and huge doctor bills there is no estate for them to come after. my mom is actually living in a house I own. i would have never thought of that. That is the extremely smart way to go. My parents live in the house I grew up in and that I now own. They also have a summer place that my brother and I jointly own. So when and if they are sick and need care, their estate is penniless. All of their life's assets are in a trust that my brother and I are due to inherit. Quote
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