carrothead Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 What should I do to get her to go out with me? She already likes me. She rides my bus and smiles at me constantly. She hugs me and calls me cute every chance she gets. The only problem is that she's going out with my quarterback. How do I get her to go with me instead without making him mad? (I really would like to keep getting passes from him!) ;D Quote
-HAWK- Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Back off until she is single. It will make everything alot easier. Quote
carrothead Posted May 27, 2009 Author Posted May 27, 2009 Okay, thanks. I really don't think her boyfriend would get that mad though if I asked her out. He's really laid back and is friends with me. He didn't even care when I danced with her the whole time at a school dance. Quote
Super User flechero Posted May 27, 2009 Super User Posted May 27, 2009 Pick him out a new girl and "take the old one off his hands" ....lol Seriously, though... you have to let them be- until it ends. If she was that into you, she'd already be finished with him. Quote
Super User Fishing Rhino Posted May 27, 2009 Super User Posted May 27, 2009 What should I do to get her to go out with me? She already likes me. She rides my bus and smiles at me constantly. She hugs me and calls me cute every chance she gets. The only problem is that she's going out with my quarterback. How do I get her to go with me instead without making him mad? (I really would like to keep getting passes from him!) quote] Hey, she's giving you all the signs. Seems all you have to do is ask her. Regarding the quarterback. Which would you rather do, receive passes from the quarterback, or make passes at her. When you can answer that, then you'll know what to do. Wasn't it simpler when you only liked sports? Girls/women do complicate things don't they? Quote
Branuss04 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Hey, she's giving you all the signs. Seems all you have to do is ask her. Regarding the quarterback. Which would you rather do, receive passes from the quarterback, or make passes at her HE COULD.... GO..... ALL.... THE.... WAYYYYYYYYYYY!!!! ;D Quote
tyrius. Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 What should I do to get her to go out with me? I'd start with NOT posting her pics on an internet forum. Quote
preach4bass Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 What should I do to get her to go out with me? I'd start with NOT posting her pics on an Internet forum. Thank You!!! Posting her pictures on the Internet is a boneheaded move that will be sure to get you off on the right foot with her dad. :-[ Quote
tyrius. Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 He didn't even care when I danced with her the whole time at a school dance. He was probably happy that you spent the whole time dancing with her. He didn't have to bother dancing AND his girlfriend wasn't mad at him because he wasn't dancing. Sounds like a win win to me. Seriously, this thread has nowhere to go but in a bad direction. Quote
mrlitetackle Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 tough luck, man..... if you do get her..... you will tick off your QB somthin' serious!! its your call, which do you enjoy more.....football or girls... i know my choice, and it doesn't involve pigskin. Quote
5151 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 My advice is you dont want to be :Pthinking 20 years from now WHAT IF Quote
bass wrangler569 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 My advice is you dont want to be :Pthinking 20 years from now WHAT IF X2 You have to decide if she is actually something special to you or not and then decide. Also, are you friends with the quarterback, because that is a big no no if you are. Remember, bros before "insert garden tool rhyming with bro here" If you aren't friends with him, is he bigger than you? If he is bigger than you, is he prone to violence and can you run fast? ;D Oh, and like others said, posting peoples pictures on a forum isn't cool. I know you probably thought nothing of it at the time but looking back you should realize that that wasn't the best move... :-/ Quote
Super User BrianinMD Posted May 27, 2009 Super User Posted May 27, 2009 You have to ask yourself how you would feel if someone did the same thing to you. Nothing loses a person respect more then thinking they can do whatever the want just because they can without thinking of others. If she is really over him let things happen on their own, if they break up then ask her. Quote
Ellesar Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I was usually successful using the tactic of asking the girl out. If you have to do something to get her to go out with you, then she isn't into you and you are kidding yourself. If she actually wants to go out with you, just ask. If she doesn't, there isn't anything you can do, you might be stuck in friend-land. Quote
bass wrangler569 Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I was usually successful using the tactic of asking the girl out. If you have to do something to get her to go out with you, then she isn't into you and you are kidding yourself. If she actually wants to go out with you, just ask. If she doesn't, there isn't anything you can do, you might be stuck in friend-land. Hey dude, totally unrelated to the topic but that is a wicked mask that you're wearing (I'm assuming its you) in your avatar. Please tell me you wear that when you're making a run in your boat! 8-) Quote
Eddie Munster Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Uh she smiles at you and calls you cute. She's either: 1. Interested in you because: A. She thinks you really are cute and thinks you're the one for her. B. You're friends with her current boyfriend and off limits. Or...... 2. Trouble because: A. She wants guys to fight over her. B. Uncommitted and will drop you once she gets you to break up a friendship. Now, the way I see it is there's a slim chance she's for real but IMO you need to tell her if she wants to date you she has to break up with that guy and wait a little while for the wound to heal. Good luck and please think about thoroughly. Quote
Pitchinkid Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Well first thing you do is grow a pair. Im not trying to be mean just honest. your buddy is the Quarterback. Chances are hes a ***** anyways and hes gonna have about 100 more girls in his life. Live while you can my man. Ask her out. You may never get another shot. This message was brought to you by the letter A. Awesome. Quote
Super User Fishing Rhino Posted May 27, 2009 Super User Posted May 27, 2009 Hey, she's giving you all the signs. Seems all you have to do is ask her. Regarding the quarterback. Which would you rather do, receive passes from the quarterback, or make passes at her HE COULD.... GO..... ALL.... THE.... WAYYYYYYYYYYY!!!! ;D Dang!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wish I'd have thought of that. Very good. Very, very good. I don't mind playing the straight man for a retort like that. Quote
Super User Fishing Rhino Posted May 27, 2009 Super User Posted May 27, 2009 What grade you guys in? LOL. This year we are having our 50th high school reunion. What grade is that? Quote
fish-fighting-illini Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Life is all about class in my opinion. For the record class is way different than upity or snobery so don't confuse the 2. Class is doing the right thing. It doesn't matter who she is going out with. If she is going out with anybody then its time to back off and let things play out. If she doesn't have enough class to not go out with you while the girlfriend of someone else then I'd question whether she is even worth it in the first place. It does't matter whether your in 8th grade or college just conduct yourself with class and don't think with tthe "other brain". How would you like it if you do go out and she ends up your girlfriend then goes out with someone else on you? Remember this is one girl out of multiple thousands you will come to know. At the end of the day whether tomorrow or 20 years from now you need to be able to look in the mirror and say " I did right ", " I acted with class ". don't mean to sound abrasive just giving my opinion is all. FFI - AKA Matt Crum Quote
Super User grimlin Posted May 28, 2009 Super User Posted May 28, 2009 Wait till she's single. I've known my wife for 9 years...the first 2 years she wasn't with me and we were just friends.Her ex-boyfriend was a ***hole....and i patiently waited for her to ended it.She had a lot of respect that i didn't "bug" into that relationship. When that door of opportunity opens then ask her. Because there's nothing more i hate than a dude trying to steal another guy's girl. How would you feel if somebody started asking your girl out while you guys are together? Quote
carrothead Posted May 28, 2009 Author Posted May 28, 2009 Well first thing you do is grow a pair. Im not trying to be mean just honest. your buddy is the Quarterback. Chances are hes a ***** anyways and hes gonna have about 100 more girls in his life. Live while you can my man. Ask her out. You may never get another shot. No, actually he's not. He's got one of the highest bench press maxes and isn't afraid to lay a hit on somebody. Our other one on the other hand...well...let's not go there. What grade you guys in? 9th Quote
Branuss04 Posted May 28, 2009 Posted May 28, 2009 Well first thing you do is grow a pair. Im not trying to be mean just honest. your buddy is the Quarterback. Chances are hes a ***** anyways and hes gonna have about 100 more girls in his life. Live while you can my man. Ask her out. You may never get another shot. No, actually he's not. He's got one of the highest bench press maxes and isn't afraid to lay a hit on somebody. Our other one on the other hand...well...let's not go there. What grade you guys in? 9th 9th Grade!!!! Seriously man, the biggest regret I have in high school is that I WASN'T single in high school. There is plenty of time for girls once your done with HS. Play the field for the next 4 years.... : Don't get involved. As somebody so gently put it.... Bro's before "Gardening tool" Quote
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