FordNFishinLover Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Hello everyone! Well this saturday is our homecoming and im asking a girl to it. But i was writing her and note and wondered what yall thought of it! Thanks for comments everyone. Holly, Ever since i have met you i thought you were very sweet and caring. Your athetic, nice, funny, good looking, and you always have something positive to say. Those are only a few reasons why i like you so much. Thats why i wanted to ask you as a friend, if you would like to go to the homecoming with me.Hopefully this way we can get to know eachother better, and possibly become more than just friends on down the road. As you can see i have left you roses, and i would love for you too keep them! Also attached is a yes and no. I'm currently down in the football field house, but my truck is parked at the end of the field. If you would like to join me at the homecoming, put a Yes on my window. If you do not wish to join me, please post a No. Thanks holly, i hope you enjoy your roses, and i hope to have you join me in the homecoming. Your friend, Zachary Quote
Super User Hookemdown. Posted September 29, 2008 Super User Posted September 29, 2008 Very nice and charming. I know a note is an easier way of asking a girl out, but actually asking her in person might be better. I hope it works out. Good luck! Quote
FordNFishinLover Posted September 29, 2008 Author Posted September 29, 2008 Well i dont have a chance to ask her....and thats not all im doing. I actully got her car unlocker and im going to decorate her car and im filling it with balloons. I have football practice right after school so i wont have a chance to see her. Quote
baboosicbass08 Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 The note sounds good but if you happen to see her in the hall or something you should try to ask her then in person. Good luck bud -Dave Quote
Bass XL Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 The note is worded great! I highly reccomend asking in person though. If I can tell you're on a tight schedual (which I can), then she can. If you make time for HER, she'll notice. Quote
Super User Sam Posted September 29, 2008 Super User Posted September 29, 2008 Call her on the phone if you can't ask her face to face. Keep the beautiful note for after you have dated her a few times and think it is time to take the relationship to a higher level. And remember, girls are like busses. You don't have to run after them as there is another one right behind her. At my age, we ask our friends if they are dating their "next future ex-girlfirend." Fishing is more fun than dating, anyway. ;D Quote
frogtog Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 I would drop the note and talk to her on the phone or in person, I would also have second thoughts about messing with her car also. Quote
fish-fighting-illini Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Hey Cat you've got a lot going on in one letter. On one hand you are asking someone to a relatively simple dance. On the other hand you are suggesting atleast the good possibility that you'd (although slowly) might like to pursue romance. That's a lot to throw out there all at once. Girls tend to have an idea something is going on ahead of time on these things anyway. The letter is very well doen by the way. Not a big deal good luck with it and have fun either way. Quote
Super User Grey Wolf Posted September 29, 2008 Super User Posted September 29, 2008 Take time out in your so busy life and talk to her personelly one on one. You might be pleasantly surprised or find out that its not in the cards for you. That's the way it works. You don't even know if she has any feelings for you at all . Quote
Super User Muddy Posted September 29, 2008 Super User Posted September 29, 2008 Ask her, face to face, BEST SHOT!! It shows you have enough respect for you and her, and it shows her you have some onions, Women tend to like that! 8-) Quote
Super User grimlin Posted September 29, 2008 Super User Posted September 29, 2008 I'm going to agree with everybody here,go face to face to her. Like fish-fighting-illini said you got too much going on in that letter that can scare a young girl away.Never mention the future to a girl! Biggest mistake every guy does. Quote
done Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 I agree with the other guys man, face to face. Be sincere, and take the time for face to face, if you really like her that much, show her she means more than the other stuff in your life. Actions speak louder than words or notes. Also, if it makes you late for practice or something, tell your coach, teacher why you were late. Chances are, at some point in their lives they were young too, most of them would understand and if they don't, ask yourself, is she worth it? It's all about sacrifice man. Good LUCK!!!! Quote
Low_Budget_Hooker Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Ask her, face to face, BEST SHOT!! It shows you have enough respect for you and her, and it shows her you have some onions, Women tend to like that! 8-) I highly agree. If you DO go the note route ( a sure turn off though, gotta tell ya) make sure you run it through spell check first. Also, be more to the point. Back to the "onions" comment. Don't leave so many outs, just ask. "Listen, I've noticed you often and think you're someone I'd like to know better. If you're interested in getting to know me more, would you want to go to the HC together?" and if she says NO, you have a reply, mature and friend-like you say "well maybe I'll see you there then?" (This allows you to still be friends and not be uncomfortable, for all you know, you may get a NO today but you have planted a seed that just may grow,...you never know. Also, with your jovial reply, she does not feel like a jerk for saying NO, again, leaving the doors of communication OPEN for future exchanges)(it also shows that a rejection isn't going to keep YOU from having a good time, you were just hoping to share it with her,...her loss kinda.......) You thought football was a game,...you ain't seen nothing yet. : 8-) Anyway, This approach is Easy, not much to forget, to the point and can be said with confidence and ease. (ps-- "confidence and ease" is what will get you the date, not the words in the note) Best of all, in a worst case scenario, everyone still walks away their respect, egos and confidence still in check Go for it, regrets are for the other guy. If this works for you, come back and let us know. Next, we go get the head cheerleader. 8-) LBH Out Quote
Bass XL Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 Next, we go get the head cheerleader. 8-) HAHA! Stay away from them! :-X Quote
aceman387 Posted September 29, 2008 Posted September 29, 2008 how about short and sweet, roses are red violets are blue i need a date for the homecoming ,im hoping its you Quote
Super User Hookemdown. Posted September 30, 2008 Super User Posted September 30, 2008 Next, we go get the head cheerleader. 8-) HAHA! Stay away from them! :-X The whole cheer squad for that matter... Quote
FordNFishinLover Posted September 30, 2008 Author Posted September 30, 2008 Haha, guys i gotta tell you, i cant believe how negative you all were about the note and flowers. I guess its my fault that i didnt give alittle back ground on this. But we have been talking to eachother for a few weeks now, and have really started to get to know eachother. We go to school together, although we dont see much of eachother. We both are alittle shy kind of people. But my personal thought on asking her face to face was how she would awnser. Because i defintaly dont want her to be pressured into saying yes, and i wanted her to take a minute and think about it. Also to mention i would of been a bit anxious to do it face to face, thats no dought, but i could of done that if i felt it was right. Anyhow, a friend of hers, also a friend of mine, got the car unlocker and after school i went with my original plan and put roses and the note in her seat, and filled her car with balloons. Throughout the day i had been talking to her friend and all of them thought it was really cute and that she would like it. And after school during football film alot of guys came up to me and said that was real cool what i did and they wished they thought of it. But lastly, she said, YES. We've been talking most of this night and i just got done picking out my clothes for the homecoming. We both are getting excited and cant wait for the weekend! I think its going to turn out pretty well. Quote
Daniel My Brother Posted September 30, 2008 Posted September 30, 2008 Excellent! Though I don't think anybody was being negative. You asked what we thought and you got honest answers. Quote
BassResource.com Administrator Glenn Posted September 30, 2008 BassResource.com Administrator Posted September 30, 2008 Congrats man. Only YOU know what works best for you. And if you find a gal that matches your style, that's a home run buddy. Have fun this weekend! Quote
FordNFishinLover Posted September 30, 2008 Author Posted September 30, 2008 Sorry daniel, i dont think negative was the right word to use. But thanks alot guys and wish me good luck haha. Quote
Super User grimlin Posted September 30, 2008 Super User Posted September 30, 2008 Well it worked out for you. Hope you guys have fun! Quote
Super User Tin Posted September 30, 2008 Super User Posted September 30, 2008 If I may quote the Waterboy...."You can do it, (you know the rest).." Quote
Super User Redlinerobert Posted September 30, 2008 Super User Posted September 30, 2008 How cool is that. Congratulations, and thanks, you just made me go back in time 20 years to my high school days. Quote
Super User Muddy Posted September 30, 2008 Super User Posted September 30, 2008 How cool is that. Congratulations, and thanks, you just made me go back in time 20 years to my high school days. More like 30, keep it honest ;D Quote
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