basspro48 Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 I'm so sick of being used and taken advantage of, and then just thrown aside like I never even ******* existed...sick of being written off, sick of being blown off, sick of waiting, and so very sick of feeling like I was stabbed in the back time and time again...and every time i get my hopes up and start to believe the things they say, something "comes up" and they just shoot it all down, like I never even mattered, like all the things that were said and did don't mean a thing... sorry about this guys, I won't bore you with the circumstances, I just really needed a place to get this out... Quote
Super User Tin Posted January 27, 2008 Super User Posted January 27, 2008 You got it out and that is good. Keeping it in can lead to you going off the deep end and doing something stupid. Quote
basspro48 Posted January 27, 2008 Author Posted January 27, 2008 girlfriend trouble bubbha? haha I wish it got that far... Quote
Super User Micro Posted January 27, 2008 Super User Posted January 27, 2008 Tried the guido lifestyle, huh? Seriously, though. What's up? Quote
basspro48 Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 haha oh no... Lately it seems as though every time I start getting close to a girl and we start talking "something" happens...For example, the girl I'd been talking to for about 3 months recently decided to blow me off several times to be with someone else. And she aint the first one to do this...Probably sounds stupid since I'm only 16, but I had really high hopes towards her. Quote
Super User burleytog Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 You putting IT on a pedestal? Quote
Low_Budget_Hooker Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 That's a part of life that you will learn how to attack with time. Play the odds, if you cast a thousand times, you're bound to hook into a fish eventually. The trick is to not just take it personally and go home but to stay and keep casting. Quote
Super User Tin Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 Relationships are not always a great thing. And most girls are not even worth chasing after. Quote
Cephkiller Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 If you want to a girl to be your girlfriend and you have been "talking" to her for three months in preparation for that there are only three possibilities: 1) She ain't interested 2) You aren't approaching the situation correctly 3) Both Quote
Super User Tin Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 To add on, you have given her the wrong idea and she thinks you just want to be friends. Quote
StatosDadRI Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Relationships are not always a great thing. And most girls are not even worth chasing after. So true Doctor TIN specially when there running away and you cant keep up. Basspro Find one who likes to fish, much easier on our life style. Quote
Guest muddy Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 haha oh no... Lately it seems as though every time I start getting close to a girl and we start talking "something" happens...For example, the girl I'd been talking to for about 3 months recently decided to blow me off several times to be with someone else. And she aint the first one to do this...Probably sounds stupid since I'm only 16, but I had really high hopes towards her. REMEMBER YOU ARE ONLY 16, you have a lot of girls and then women to meet. Some will break your heart, some will empty your pockets, some will be all OO, and no brains But some will be the greatest times of your life. The old Italian thing, my father and all my Uncles instilled was YOU ARE GOING TO MEET 3 GREAT WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE, one will be so special you will marry her and build a family: LIFES GREATEST GIFT. Look , you have to get some disapointment and heart aches along the way, but you are in the game, enjoy it. Wait to you see what it's like when it's good Besides if their weren't some heartless women out there THE BLUES would never have been invented. 8-) Quote
Super User Tin Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 Relationships are not always a great thing. And most girls are not even worth chasing after. So true Doctor TIN specially when there running away and you cant keep up. Basspro Find one who likes to fish, much easier on our life style. I would just rather be fishing than dealing with drama and her parents. Quote
basspro48 Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 oh no, trust me, she knew exactly what was in my mind We might not have been "goin out" but we might as well have been, lol. muddy, LBH, that's true wisdom right there. And thanks to all you guys fer helpin me out. Quote
Super User Micro Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 Have you considered an ugly chick? They usually don't cheat on you, and if they leave you, so what. Seriously, though. Don't try too hard. A good relationship is worth effort, but not just yours. If you're the only one putting anything into it, probably time to move on. Quote
Super User Sam Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 What my mother told me. "Women are like street cars. There will always be another one coming along soon enough." 16 years old and you are upset that a girl blew you. I mean blew you off. Or whatever? Your true honey will not enter your life until college or thereafter. Just have fun; play the field; and find them; love them; and forget them. At your age fishing and gettng good grades are the top priority. Plus baseball and cars and hunting and computer games and .......... Quote
Fish Man Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 16 years old and you are upset that a girl blew you. I mean blew you off. Or whatever? lmao Quote
Super User Hookemdown. Posted January 28, 2008 Super User Posted January 28, 2008 Relationships are not always a great thing. And most girls are not even worth chasing after. I'm also 16 and that's my philosophy. I have time to fish, play music with the guys, go hunting whenever I want, go where I want, do what I want... And I still have all of my money! I'll worry about girls when I can afford it ;D Quote
basspro48 Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Have you considered an ugly chick? They usually don't cheat on you, and if they leave you, so what. hahaha, thanks for the suggestion but that aint what I'm into And sam, i would be feeling quite the opposite right now Quote
kms399 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 when i was in high school i had the same problem I would meet a girl slowly work up to it but then somehow i was always the "brother" figure and a good friend but no action for me. hell i was good friends with my wife for 2 years before we ever started dating now we have been together for 9 years and married for 2. so i guess either you need to work on your game (that was always my problem, not very smooth or attractive) or say screw it buy a playboy and go fishing whenever you want. ( I practicly have to beg nowadays). Quote
HUNTER19 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Bass pro dont sweat it!! There are many others out there. Plus your only sixteen!! Just go to college you will not regret it ;D Quote
tipptruck1 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Dude don't worry about one woman. I have been blowen off before and it will happen agian. But I would never trade the single life for any thing. I have a married buddy and a buddy thats taken. All I hear from both of them is how they wish they had my life. Quote
FishingBuds Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I'm so sick of being used and taken advantage of, and then just thrown aside like I never even ******* existed...sick of being written off, sick of being blown off, sick of waiting, and so very sick of feeling like I was stabbed in the back time and time again...and every time i get my hopes up and start to believe the things they say, something "comes up" and they just shoot it all down, like I never even mattered, like all the things that were said and did don't mean a thing... sorry about this guys, I won't bore you with the circumstances, I just really needed a place to get this out... sounds like you got it to me Just that - be sick of it, give it up. Put focus on other important matters. Not to say you stay away from the girls but, don't focus on them. They want your attention and when you give it you get what you see above right? Man let them chase you. You'll be surprized how they act when you act not intrested. But, it don't work that way when your married, then you pay attention or pay for it all the time Seriously tho, A great relationship starts out as freinds, and can lead to marriage which continues with friendship and other things as well Quote
Guest muddy Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 TAKING WOMEN ADVICE FROM TIPPTRUCK IS WORSE THAN TAKING ADVICE FROM THESE FELLAS ON: Taking TROLLING MOTOR ADVICE FROM ME TAKING FAMILY POSTING ETHICS FROM AVID PATIENCE WITH GRAMMAR ERRORS FROM LONG MIKE WHAT TO DO ON YOUR FIRST DATE FROM HOOKEMDOWN RESTRAINT IN ANY FORM FROM BURLEY BIG AND TALL MEN'S FASHIONS FROM LBH Quote
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