WhiteMike1018 Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Well I must say my life is going through a tussel right now in a ot of different aspects. School is going good for the most part I must say, its just my money situation and all the negativity that goes on around where I live. My mom woke me up monday morning around 8:00 and told me my window was smashed, someone had thrown a giant rock through it. Now this was very upsetting. I layed there in my bed feeling betrayed, by some of my old friends whom I no longer associate with no more. What was even more upsetting was this is the second time this has happened since July. Its hard enough to manage things with only a part time job and going to school. not to mention my mom might have to be selling the house soon to get an apartment, as she is a single parent and works full time, and her one job was lost due to the company no longer in business. I had a good talk with my dad today about alot of things, and he told me not to let this negativity and things I cant control bring me down. If it wasn't for my dad I would probably be throwing rocks through windows today just like the people who did it to mine, simply because he and my mom have raised me to be a proper person, and have taught me so many things along the way. Im really not quite sure why im posting this thread, I just feel i need to get a few things out, its good to see that people read things like this for the most part and im hoping it will give me a boost of confidence and motivation. Ive learned theres things in life we just cant control, and this is one of them. I have an idea who might have done it but theres really nothing I can do, as it could have been anybody and there is no evidence to support the claim. We already have enough things to worry about in life, but this is just really upsetting and adds on. Well with all that being said dad and I are going out thursday for a day of fishing. Which is just what I need because theres probably not a better way for a persons problems to run down a fishing line and have that moment of excitement when hooking into a bass. Good luck to all, and dont let the little things get to you. -Mike Quote
Fisher of Men Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Mike, I'm glad that you can share those feelings with us. We are here to vent to among other things. I, too went through some tough times at the end of my HS and the onset of college years. However, like every other tough time in my life, those times did pass. I will lift you up in my prayers and pray that God will lead you through this and help you become stronger because of it. God bless, Fisher <>< Quote
Super User Raul Posted October 9, 2007 Super User Posted October 9, 2007 Here 's some food for thought: Lord let me have the patience to tolerate the things I can 't change Lord give me the power to improve the things I can change Your will be done, not mine. Quote
jeremyt Posted October 9, 2007 Posted October 9, 2007 Tough times can get you down, but I think you have to go through them to enjoy the good. I was given a saying from an old man at church one time that has brought me out of the worste and it goes like this. " God brought me to it, so he will bring me through it." Just some food for thought. Try not to get too down things happen for a reason. Just learn from it, become stronger from it and enjoy everything that you have. Quote
dink Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Sometimes you just gotta vent! This place is as good as any which has already been proven by the above replies. Head up and eyes on the prize whatever it may be. Hang in there, dink Quote
Red Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 trust me dude, if you WANT things to get better, they will...i was down in the dumps and broke less than a year ago....now my wife and i have two vehicles and good jobs, i was tired of being in that spot so i changed it.....and let me tell you it feels great(almost as good as landing a big ol bass!) anyway things will pick up for you man.....good luck! Cliff Quote
reddrooster Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 It's like I used to tell my son when things were looking pretty bleak, "This is the low point and it will get better from here". You know what? It did. Hang in there, it will get better. Quote
Super User Catt Posted October 10, 2007 Super User Posted October 10, 2007 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. Philippians 4:11 Quote
skillet Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Most of us are here thru the GOOD and the BAD. Hang in there, my friend ... As Ever, skillet Quote
WhiteMike1018 Posted October 10, 2007 Author Posted October 10, 2007 Thanks guys just reading all your replies makes me feel a lot better about things. cant wait to get out fishing tomorrow...ill post a report if I do any good -mike Quote
BassChaser57 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Where you are is not who you are!!! You are on a journey that (if you finish college) will take you to great places. It is hard but look at your destination in 5 years and stay on the right path or you will never rise above your current situation. Growth NEVER comes without paying a price, some fear, and getting outside your comfort zone. You and you alone must decide (and it sounds like you already have) that you will go forward in life, stay on your chosen path and not let anyone put a detour in front of you. If you stay the course you will be a success, if you detour you will never arrive at your destination!!! If you were less of a person you would have already given up. You have what it takes to hang in there and go forward to great places in your life. Please keep us posted. Quote
fish-fighting-illini Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Mike, I am no biblical scholar by any means but I saw a picture/ painting once. In it was a guy walking wtih 2 sets of footprints behind him for a ways then up close to him was just one set. The inscription said something like " lord I thought you would always be by my side why did you leave me" the reply was "son those single footprints are from the time that I carried you" Life can be tough sometimes it can downright suck but you have to hang in there. Mom can adapt, an apartment is just a setback for now. Since your dad is around then your mom is not a total single parent. If you are still in school then he should still be contributing ( none of my business just food for thought). Education is your ticket maybe you will have to slow the pace to help but it can be done. If not already make sure that you have approached all the student aid angles. I lost a job for around 6 mo's a couple of years ago first time ever which is scary enough. I was the only source of income for a fmily of 7. You would be amazed on how you can adapt in tough times. During my job setback I called the college and explained to them my situation. They re-did our financial aid package and the kids were able to stay in college ( 2 at one time no less!). The kids essentialy got paid approx $1,000 per semester to go to school. Maybe gently talk to dad about the house situation maybe he can help in some way. That's a touchy subject I'm sure. You sound as though you have made great strides based on your past. DO NOT give up on all of your hard work to get where you are. Quote
Guest muddy Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Hey Mike I am feeling you. Just know that there is just a natural flow of good and bad events that come through our lives. I am very horrible sometimes when i am really down, it takes me to open my mouth up to some close friends, or i can get ugly and so fill of myself, as i have unfortunatly shown here. Just keep venting , someone will give you sumptin you can use. Hang in there 8-) I don't really have any faith in all the scripture stuff but i do believe in the brotherhood of man, things will get better. Bottom line, if soomone feels it necessary to break your property , you might not need them in your life anyway. Quote
Cajun1977 Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 red torpedo said it best .....if your tired of your situation ,change your situation. good luck to ya Quote
Pond Hopper Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 It could be worse, and be thankful it isn't. This past year has been the toughest of my 24 years here, and will be the most difficult period of my life I will ever go through, guaranteed. Having good friends and the ability to not bottle up feelings is the greatest aid you will have in getting through it. Tough times build maturity and mental strength, and after this past year I know I can handle anything that is thrown at me. Tough times also teach you to not sweat the little things and live life like its your last day here. Hope it works out. Quote
WhiteMike1018 Posted October 11, 2007 Author Posted October 11, 2007 Good insight from everyone, today just shows how much fishing can change your mood and make you not sweat the little things a 3 pounder and a 2 1/2 on a spinnerbait out with dad! so glad im a part of this sport -Mike Quote
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