Need woman help.

[tipptruck1]

Well you guys know iam looking for a woman. I really havent been able to get out for the last month. But Iam going to try to get out this weekend. But heres were I need help. I need fell like I can talk to woman. But I fell like I cant be my funny self around them. I also fell like I cant tell them about me living with the granparents. Belive me I don't like it at 21 soon 22. But thats only do to me working part time and going to school. So help guys. If you cant help me I will go talk to my buddies woman and ask for advice.

[Low_Budget_Hooker]

This one is simple.

BE YOURSELF!!

Have confidence in the person you are, THAT is what attracts a person, not who you live with, how much you make etc.  IF those are the things a girl is interested in, look to the next one.

If you talk to a girl this weekend, pretend it's just another person.  Think of it like you are just chatting w/ a BR member or something and let your true self come out.  

[Cephkiller]

You have to like yourself.  Be confident.  Confidence is the single most attractive quality you can have.  Ever wondered why the really hot women seem to date the bigest jerks around?  Well, that arrrogance is sometimes percieved by these women as supercharged confidence.  When you exude confidence, women (and people in general) are curious as to what you have going for you.  They think, "Why is this guy so positive about himself?  He must have some good things going for him.  I think I'll stick around and find out what's up."

Also, be interested in her.  Ask questions about her.  Talk about her interests.  Not only people appreciate this, but it also keeps the mystery alive about you without obviously trying to hie anything.  Again, she'll want to come back for more to find out about you.  Good luck.

[Low_Budget_Hooker]

Also, be interested in her.  Ask questions about her.  Talk about her interests.  Not only people appreciate this, but it also keeps the mystery alive about you without obviously trying to hie anything.  Again, she'll want to come back for more to find out about you.  Good luck.

More good advice.  

[Maxximus Redneckus]

Be YOURSELF most women can spot a fake a mile away ,tell her the truth upfront don't leave anything for her to fall back on down the road .Women have a diff sense of humor then guys also sometimes they will laugh sometimes they wont don't be worried if you think she  seems not into you .And above all remember details anything she says whether small or not usually willl be brought up a few days later they do this on purpose to see if u remember what they say .I have lived with females since i was 18 never been alone been married also even pregnant ones i dont no it all but i sure been through a lot .Main thing i learned was to listen   women are very mental and emotional

[Root beer]

I will admit I'm not hottest dude in school, and yet my friends are like "man how you know all these hot chicks?" All I said "Being my-self." I learn one thing about women..if you can make them laugh you can make them do anything. Being your self is awesome advice. Women loves personality. At least the non sluts do lol.

Anyway point is women really love personalitly. So ya, have confident and show great personalilty and make her laugh!! You'll have her number in no time. good luck man.

[Siebert Outdoors]

Also, be interested in her. Ask questions about her. Talk about her interests. Not only people appreciate this, but it also keeps the mystery alive about you without obviously trying to hie anything. Again, she'll want to come back for more to find out about you. Good luck.

More good advice.

That right there is the best advice along with the confidence comment.  Dont be looking at your shoes, the floor,  her  's.  Look into her eyes.

[Ghost Rider]

Well do not talk about bass fishing for more than 5 min. Find a something common to talk about. As far as looks most ladies dont care. Money is a big deal though, its one of those sub mating issues. Like any animal it wants to know can you take care of them and a family. So dress to kill. oh take a bath and put some smell good on but not to much.

If that does not work buy jet boat and hang out on the lake.

For a date i would rec a date on the lake .... no swiming just dinner and show her a sun set . Chicks dig that romantic stuff.

if she give you a phone number program it right then and call her cell to make sure you dont get the run around.

Well that my .02 cents for now and dont show off that will kill it in a heart beat .

[tallydude]

I know you've read this, but be yourself. Have confidence in the person that you are. Don't sweat it if some chick doesn't dig you. If she can't see how awesome you are, believe me, you wouldn't want to hang with her anyway. Don't be embarassed about living with your grandparents. I have an amazing girlfriend right now that I met when I was down on I disagree.

Finally, don't try to put a timeline on when you should meet some chick. It doesn't work that way. Invest your time in being the best person you can be and make yourself happy. She'll find her way to you.

[tipptruck1]

I will admit I'm not hottest dude in school

Belive me iam also no looker. I stand 6'2" 320 and going gray in the facial hair. So Iam sure thats one strike all ready. Westplamdude Iam in no hurry to find a woman. I just need to get out of the house. Snice Iam going to be out I would rather look for a woman. But guys I did get go advice from my mom the other night. I told her I was looking for a woman. Then I hear her say "don't rush in to marriage." I think shes the first woman that dosn't want me to get married.

[Root beer]

Oh ya dude, compliment her. DOnt keep saying "nice hair, your real beautiful, great smile" dont say all that in one sentence just say. While your talking to her and she blushing a little or if she smiles be like "wow, you have a great smile." They love that stuff. Trust me, well teenages girls do. ;D

[abelfisher]

Compliment her on her shoes.  Chicks dig that!

And LBH hit it in the head.  Be yourself.

[Deb]

After reading all the imput from the guys, thought I'd give my .01 worth.  Yes, be yourself.  Don't get handzee.  Be a gentleman.  It's ok to flirt but not to far too fast.  Don't worry about living with your grand parents, it's much better than under an overpass!  Easy on the cologne, lots of females are very sensitive to the stuff.  Triggers migraines.  Yes, females like to feel like the dude is paying attention and we will "test you later".  Believe in yourself.  Looks are only skin deep we all have our imperfections.  Even the "best" looking are self concious about something.  Relax.  Enjoy.  Have fun!  When it's time to have that special person in your life, she will be there.  Remember till you find her, there's always fishing!

[hootersdoug]

From a guy who knows a lot about women from working around a lot of them..........all of the above advice is right on.  Don't ever think that any woman is "too hot" for you, there goes your confidence.  Other input from some girls at work  

What they like:

Notice if they have changed their hair.  (they probably could have bought a nice rod reel combo for the same $$$$)

Let them lead the speed of progression of the date.

Any thoughtful gift. ($$$ is NOT the mark of thoughtfulness)

A phone call later in the day if they have told you earlier that all is not going great.  

Real people.

There were also a big list of dislikes, but lets focus on the positives.  A lot of the girls also mentioned that most of their best relationships have been with guys they knew before they dated.  If you are a fun person to hang out with, you will obviously be a fun date, so don't always approach a woman you are intersted in with dating in mind.  Let them get to know you as a friend first.

[justfishin]

You need a good pick up line, here take mine, " WHHOOOOO WEEEEEEE GIRL, YALL IS PURTTIER THAN A NEW SET OF SNOW TARS !!! ;D

[Root beer]

Compliment her on her shoes. Chicks dig that!

And LBH hit it in the head. Be yourself.

Compliment her shoes? you dont want the chicks gay radar going off do you? haha jk I dont know about that.

But defitnely, compliment her smile or eyes.

[tipptruck1]

Man a nice smile on woman and eys. Those are the things that catch my eyes the most. Next would have to be legs and a butt. And third and last hair color. I love redheads. I just wish there was more of them.

[Cajun1977]

you do realize you are in your twenties right...grow a set and ask a woman out....posting it here every week wont get you a date

no offense just tough love

[bassboy1]

Alright, here is my problem.  I am 14, 6 days of 8th grade left.  Just "asked out" a seventh grader.  My sister is in seventh grade, and I got her to tell her friend that I like her.  Now, I am shy, and not all that social.  She is shy too.  I know I need to talk to her a bit, but the shyness trait comes in (with the last girl I "asked out" I put a card in her locker on valentines day in 6th grade.  Then, we said NOTHING for about a year and a half.  Then it was out of necessity more than anything else.  Finally we started talking freely about feb. of 8th grade.  But still only in a deserted hallway or something.  Never really around people.)  I don't want that to happen again.  I don't mind talking if they start the conversation, but am too shy to start one myself.  She is most definitely too shy to start one.  My main question is, does it seem decent to email her, or should I suck up my guts, and attempt to speak?  If yall say yes to emailing, what should I say?  At school, since she is a grade lower and we see each other only during band class, where it is only feasible to talk in the time we put instruments back on the shelves in the instrument closet.  Doesn't leave much time for me to suck up my guts and pull start my mouth.

I am totally abnormal, but I know that matters not.  There are women in this world who would prefer a date at the scrapyard, or BPS, or Tractor Supply Company as opposed to some fancy dinner or cinema.  Just gotta find em, and that involves talking to them, and there inlies the problem.

BTW, she owns a lake up in Tennessee (well her parents do).  I do know that they go there fairly often.  Of course, even though she is my sisters friend, once my sister learned I liked her, my sister wont speak anymore.  I can't figure out what they do at the lake - ski, fish, swim, etc.  Is this typical female behavior to not tell older brother about her friend?  I mean I can't find out even where she lives by checking the phone book, as her last name is Carter, and I live in Cartersville.  Whole d*** phone book page for Carter.  My sister wont even tell her dads first name.  

[Maxximus Redneckus]

My pickup line that works best is "i lost my phone number can i have yours"  its a great start to kinda feel the girl out. Like i say they have diff humor then us but if the lady you say this too actually laughs and gives you her number it means she is funny and interested and another pickup line if your brave is "is that a mirror in your pocket cause i see myself in your pants" 3 things will happen the best of the 3  is "lets get out of this boring place"  the 2nd thing that will happen is not so bad either she will say" thats funny ....what are you doing fri night"  now worst case scenario is   SLAP ........you pervert is that all you men think about and then they give ya a evil eye and leave of course you ask at appropriate times  GOOD LUCK man  ;D

[tipptruck1]

So redneck how many times have you been slaped ;D. As for bassboy1 turn around and run. Just enjoy life as a teenager. Before you know it you will also be 21.

[justfishin]

Hey, I guess I shouldn't joke with you young fella. I know its serious stuff for you. Look, the bottom line is, just ask them out, they can't eat you,ya know? I am fifty and in the same boat as you. I have been with Eva for a long time and she pushed me to get married for the last 3 years and I just don't want to get married. We were fine the way it was. That and her being homesick for Austria induced here decision to go back to her country. So here I am, a little heartbroke and single again. Trust me, I am no prize. I am not ready to date yet but, I am a healthy male so..... When its time and I meet someone interesting to me I will just ask her out, simple. Like I said, they can't eat you.

[Root beer]

justfishing, even a woman the size of rosie o'donnel cant eat you?

[Ghost Rider]

Here are some things to watch out for and some dos and donts

1. Watch out for the Materialistic ones their easy to spot

2. After you open your door for your truck or car and they dont unlock yours... their throw backs

3. Never talk politics with them most of the time their views are diff than yours.

4. If they text message during the date ..... throw them back

5.  Be Professional while speaking and listen how they talk

6. watch their body Language it will tell you alot. like if she is playing with her hair ... that could be good or bad.

7. If they have short hair they normally are real simple girls. Look at their nails if there groomed well they take care of them self.

8. The biggest turn off is a woman is showing off or as my girl friend would say beating you chest like .

Tarzan

for some reason most women like the bad boys also ... its a Challenge for them to catch them and try to change them. i am sure you heard the term Nice boys finish last right.

So pick out what you want and ready your self for a set backs but remember its ok to get shot down it happens to all of us. Oh when you go out dance with the fat ones it makes the hot ones look at you and question them selfs ...why are you not checking me out. Especially if she is sitting next to her. Thats call Reverse Psychology

If you want to know more about women read  women's magazines it will tell you alot but dont let your bros find out.

Good luck and happy hunting let us know how it works out for you

[Guest avid]

Lotsa good advice here, but getting out and going for it is the key.

Be friendly, don't be afraid to be funny, but keep it clean.

Be nice.  I know so many girls/woman who have had horrible abusive relationships and just want someone who will be nice to them.

Be yourself.  

Be honest.

Good luck dude.

I was feeling like you are.  It was a long time ago.

I talked to my Grandmother and she "God put someone on this earth just for you"

believe it.