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My buddy came over and used my porfile on my space looking for woman. I don't think he would cheat on his woman of two years. Heck if I had a woman like her I would never look at a woman agian. But heres what my buddy sent a woman. I noticed that he was covering it up as he typed it.

i do not have a myspace account so i am using a friends! I am looking for someone to show me around the madison area or surrounding areas. I promise you wont be dissappointed with my looks and chemistry. Send message back to this account if interested! thanks.

What do you guys think of this?

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My buddy came over and used my porfile on my space looking for woman. I don't think he would cheat on his woman of two years. Heck if I had a woman like her I would never look at a woman agian. But heres what my buddy sent a woman. I noticed that he was covering it up as he typed it.

i do not have a myspace account so i am using a friends! I am looking for someone to show me around the madison area or surrounding areas. I promise you wont be dissappointed with my looks and chemistry. Send message back to this account if interested! thanks.

What do you guys think of this?

Maybe behind closed doors his angel is a mean B***h ya never no

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Hey Tip,

Seems a bit odd, to me. Honestly, I think I would talk to him about it. Just let him know as a friend your concerned.

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I would really like to talk to him. But hes like a brother to me and I don't need to lose a friend like him. Hey the_Conceited_ReDnEcK I have seen her mad over the smallest things. She makes him stop drinking after a certin time. But she can keep drinking. I have no clue why she makes him stop. Iam the driver I would rather not drink and drive there butts around. I guess its better then geting a call from the cops. I have been seeing that things havent been to great between them. So If I can get my buddy alone with out the his woman I might have to speak to him.

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Man, relationships do get boring...not that this is 100% moral but maybe him and his girl are having a hard time?

Just because they might hang out dont mean hes going to get laid lol  ;)

talk to him afterwards and ask him how it went  :);)

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 Sending a message like that to such a site is pretty obvious. Morality is one of those relative things. A lot of folks think of it as all black and white. To me, there's an awful lot of grey. I would have a problem with the message plus using your profile to send it. That's just me though.

 Being the 3rd party in a situation is really hard. From this post and earlier ones, you seem to care about both of them and you know them better than us. You could end up losing one or even both as friends  :(. Give it some thought, sounds like you could step off in deep dodo :P

                                                 As Ever,

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Before jumping to conclusions, ask him about it.  If he's really like a brother, then this won't drive a wedge between you.  In fact, he may be wanting to talk to you about it, but doesn't know if you'll judge him or not.  For some people, just getting it off their chests diffuses the whole situation.  So ask him about it!

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CHEATING IS NEVER RIGHT, PERIOD.

AGREED.

And Glenn's comment is very wise, I would take his advice.

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What Glenn said and Tip that doent mean in the long run you co-sign badbehavior You do this things making no judgement and standing on your own square. I cant even do this 100% of the time but i try to with my closest friends

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You know what muddy if I would have saw it I would have stoped it. You know guys I can handle him looking at a dirty site, magzine or going to a strip club. But asking a woman to meet him. All I know is that this is eating me up. I havent been able to enjoy my day and didn't sleep real good last night. So I think Iam just going to go fishing. I hope that will get my mind off of it.

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Man, relationships do get boring...not that this is 100% moral but maybe him and his girl are having a hard time?

Just because they might hang out dont mean hes going to get laid lol  ;)

talk to him afterwards and ask him how it went  :);)

Just becuase "maybe him and his girl are having a hard time" doesnt mean he should "hang out" with another woman. The message he sent her sounds like he wants to more than just hang out anyway.

And if something is 1% inmoral then it is intirley inmoral. Something is 100% moral, or 100% NOT moral. No inbetweens.

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"i do not have a . account so i am using a friends! I am looking for someone to show me around the madison area or surrounding areas. I promise you wont be dissappointed with my looks and chemistry. Send message back to this account if interested! thanks."

Your friend is a wordsmith.  You should keep his relationship together at all costs as I doubt you will want to spend an evening with a girl drawn in by that proposition.

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CHEATING IS NEVER RIGHT, PERIOD.

I second that.... If your not happy man up and talk to them. If your ready to move on then move on. Cheating is hurtfull decetfull and shows the wourld how much of a child he relly is.

Posted
Man, relationships do get boring...not that this is 100% moral but maybe him and his girl are having a hard time?

Just because they might hang out dont mean hes going to get laid lol  ;)

talk to him afterwards and ask him how it went  :);)

Just becuase "maybe him and his girl are having a hard time" doesnt mean he should "hang out" with another woman. The message he sent her sounds like he wants to more than just hang out anyway.

And if something is 1% inmoral then it is intirley inmoral. Something is 100% moral, or 100% NOT moral. No inbetweens.

Matt, get a girlfriend first before you quote me. K thanks .  :);):D lol jk

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This is bad news.  I'm sorry for you and your friend's girl.  If it were me, I would tell him that although I realize it's probably none of my business what he does, do not involve me by using my account.  Also, I cannot be friends with a cheater.  I have had friends who have cheated on their wives and they are now ex-friends.  I just can't do it.  Cheaters are not good people and they do not make good friends.

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Well guys I think if the woman sends a messege back iam not going to tell him. But I still think thats this is from that they don't trust the other person. I guess she told him that she has done things with guys when she was married. Then one night when I was with him we watched her all night. We went from bar to bar sitting out side watching her. I tell you what I still don't feel good about that one. He told her he was going to a wedding and hung out with me all day. Once and a while he would call her and say he was thinking of her. Well after we made sure she got home with out a guy we went back to my place. He changed like he came from the wedding. Iam like what are you going to tell her when you get home. Hes like iam going to surprise her. I waited a few days and called him and asked if she knew. I guess she knew he was lying from the minute he steped in the house. Snice that day she no longer trust him. Iam just gald he left my name out of that.

You know cpehkiller this is only his second screw up see the pargragh above. I really cant juge people that screw up. Loard knows that iam not a perfect person. But I see him tomrrow iam going to have a talk with him.

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I agree with Russ, cheating is wrong. The fact that you care enough about your buddy to tell him that you feel that what he is doing is not right says alot about you as a person. Good job Tipp.

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Belvie it or not redline my parents didn't teach me how to respect woman. Well my dad taught me a little. He had a new woman every week. So I got sick and tired of that crap and I said to my self iam not going to be like him. But it seems like any time some one is cheating iam in the middle of it. First my dad now maybe my buddy.

Posted

Now thats a low blow redline. ;D Its not my fault that they arnt happy with one woman. I Don't think I could do that. I can't handle one woman on a bad day. I don't know how my dad could do that.  

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First my dad now maybe my buddy.

Sorry Tipp.  I guess if my Dad was a cheater I might be a little more inclined to cut some slack.  I didn't mean to insult your Father.  I hope it all works out well for everyone involved.

Posted

Cephkiller you didn't insult my father or me. The only reason I can forgive both my dad and maybe my buddy is because I have a crimal record. So I view it as if my buddy can for give for that. I can forgive people and my buddy for screwing up. Well to a certin point.

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