I hate the formality of weddings, was not going to do it. When my wife and I got married we rented a B&B and had everyone stay there. We had the whole place rented to no other guest would be around. Absolutely nothing was formal, had a friend get ordained online to perform the ceremony, shorts/t-shirts, they were doing the wave and heckling us during the ceremony....
It was 3 days of just having fun.