I've been questioning myself rather I made the right choice in having a kid...My wife blatantly said it herself to me once.Kids are expensive,I don't care what anybody says. The problems I've got with mine isn't even the kid's fault. You really have to expect the unexpected when it comes to having kids and a family.
Honestly....It is a stressful life. In some sense it is worth it because of some of the joy kids can bring you.In other ways it can really screw people up.
But if you are really unsure of it...STAY SINGLE! There's nothing and I mean NOTHING wrong with staying single....90% of my single friends are some of the happiest people I know. 75% of my married friends are some of the most messed up people I know.
There are some people I know specially the girls who jump into relationships so fast that later in life pretty much regret everything.
I didn't start my family till I was 27. So even then,I started later than most might.
I know I may be on the darker side of this from most people's opinion,but just take a look at most families and marriages....most of them are a mess. Maybe I may be looking at the wrong in this here and around negativity more than I should be.
It a choice and a hard one....there's good and bad in both staying single or being married.
But honestly,kids can be your pride and joy,they come from a part of you and their mother. Something like that can really change you.While i still question myself,I have no regrets....So have no regret in whatever you choose to do in life.