Interesting stuff in this thread!
Parents divorced when I was young and I spent my early life on the streets. Quit school at 16 and joined the Army at 17, was released on a medical discharge and went back to the streets, hitchhiking from coast to coast, in and out of trouble and aimless.
Finally managed to work my way into college (Ball State) where at 23 I met the Love of My Life, best friend and the woman who saved my life, she was 18 and now married 47 years. I went to work for an underground utilities company, deciding that becoming a teacher wasn’t for me and worked my way to District Manager of several operations in three States in short order with my Wife working along my side as Office Manager.
We got tired of the constant moving at contracts end, quit and moved to California where I started a paint and wallpaper business and she took a office job at Walmart as a business manager. After a few years we grew tired of the left coast and longed for the change of seasons and moved to Tennessee where I continued working for myself and she as an Office Manager for a well known truck equipment company. Ironically the company opened an operation in Indiana, where we are from, and offered her the Operations Manager position so we moved back home. After twenty years the equipment company was sold and she found a new career as the Sales Manager at a Harley-Davidson dealership, where after twenty plus years she is the store business manager and runs things for a absentee owner. All the while I continued to work for myself and built a small six man operation providing paint and mostly commercial wallpaper installation for commercial operations; hotels, motels, nursing homes and office parks.
In 2020 I suddenly underwent quadruple bypass (CABG 4) and after 35 years of self employment retired from working. The Wife continues to work today at the HD Dealership, for how long we don’t know.
Just this week she was diagnosed with Cancer.
To sit here and put near 70 years of life history in a few paragraphs seems trivial but it’s been a life well lived and a great ride. We have tried to live with no fear or regrets and can only go boldly into our future smiling.
Would we change anything? Only the time we have with the ones we love.