I just got around to reading your original post. I was just getting into fishing for the first time since I was a kid throwing crawlers for suckers when this thread was first started. Folks like you, @A-Jay, and honestly several others here, I still idolize as my fishing heros. Many of you are at a level of commitment that I just can't afford in my life at the moment: both finances and life commitments keep me from my fishing dreams. Not to mention the years y'all have spent on the water, learning from experience. I'm but a noob. But I love reading the wisdom of the Lip-Ripping Sages here on BR.
Back in 2020, I was definitely in Stage 1. (In fact, I don't think I actually got started until 2021. Sometime thereabouts. COVID lockdowns blurred everything together.)
Now I'm pretty much in stages 2 and 3. I wanna catch big bass, but I'm happy with lots of bass. Most days I don't achieve either of those goals. I'm left being content with what I've got. So I go ahead and skip on down to stage 5. I love bringing other people fishing: watching that smile you mentioned makes my day. Mostly it's my little siblings (I have 9 of them) that I bring to the local ponds and help them fish for bass. (Many of them are just as excited about the bluegill and pumpkinseed.) They love it, and the joy of watching a kid pull in a biggun, is honestly greater than if I coulda pulled one in myself. I'm still a bank fisherman. I dream of one day having a kayak. In many ways I'm still on phase 1. I'm at a point where I can identify with many of the phases in one way or another.