Disclaimer: I have a great life, it's just a busy life. Not looking for sympathy.
I have limited time to fish. When I do get to fish I usually have "stuff" to do after I'm done fishing. When I first get to the lake and launch my boat the ONLY THING on my mind is fishing. It's both intense, and relaxing at the same time. After a while fishing "life" thought come back into my mind. The first hour or two it's like I'm back in my childhood with nothing on my mind except Bass.
Regarding taps, engulfs, size of baits ect. It's my belief that when fishing bottom contact stuff you'd better set the hook if you "think" you feel anything. With Spots you'll lose part of a plastic occasionally, but I truly believe if you wait to set the hook you'll catch a few more small Spots, but lose out on many bigger Bass. It's by belief that big Bass (including Spots)....over 5 pounds or so don't mess around when biting. By the time you're decided if there's "weight" on your line they've already spit out your lure and moved on. Also, I've gotten away from using "monster" worms. Perhaps they're the ticket is some waters where there's really BIG Bass. It's my belief if you're not getting bit with a "normal" 6 inch worm, but can get bit with a 10 inch worm it's due to the fall rate. Simply use a smaller weight with the 6 inch worm. The bites will come back, and you don't have to play "when to set the hook" games with yourself.