Given where you're fishing (potentially bigger fish in cover) I'd recommend your first setup be a baitcaster - 7ft. MH/F with a 7:1 to 8:1 speed reel. Probably most economical to start with a combo (Lews or Abu Garcia have some good ones at lower price points, I think). One trick of a baitcaster might be to decide which hand you're going to reel with - I'm right handed, but I prefer a left-hand baitcaster same as my spinning reels. If you don't have a friend with a baitcaster to try, you could hit your local shop or BP and try both to see which feels more natural for you. Spool with 15#-20# Trilene Big Game to start. Mono is cheap and easier to learn with on a baitcaster. Tie on a 1/4oz-1/2oz. weight and go casting in your backyard or a quiet park, until you've got the hang of it (school of YouTube will show you how to setup a reel - it's very intimidating at first, but not complicated at all).
For lures, keep it simple and don't try to cover every technique until you've been catching some and finding what works/what you enjoy/what water you're fishing most often. A frog (a classic summer bass technique, but it's questionable to frog the thick stuff with with mono), a spook or popper, a couple shad colored crank baits of different running depths (maybe a DT4 and a DT10, for example) and a small selection for Texas rigging - 4/0 worm hooks and 5/0 EWG, 1/4oz. and 3/8oz bullet weights, bobber stops and a bag each of 5" senkos, 6"-8" worms and a beaver bait in whatever colors guys tell you work on Fork.
Once you're catching some, take your wife fishing. Hopefully she likes it, so then you'll need another rod/reel for her and some baits. You can then divert some shoe money into a M or MH spinning outfit with wacky worm and paddle-tail swimbait gear. ?