For the attention deficit I will ask the question first, then get into the situation:
How do you balance out time with family, partner, hobbies, work, and fishing?
I have recently gotten back into fishing, and become more serious with it then ever before.
I have been in bowling leagues since 1999, some years as many as 6 nights per week, now I am on one winter league (33 weeks) from late August to mid April. I have been on at least one APA pool team year round since 2005, as many as 3 nights a week in one session several times. I shot many tournaments with both sports, including regional singles several times, as well as multiple state championships over the years (I won the state 9ball title in 2013).
In January 2016 (at pool league) I met the woman who has changed my life for the better in so many ways, and in a way is responsible for my getting back into fishing... This summer I have dropped all of my pool leagues and am spending more and more time with her. She has started to get very jealous of the time I spend on the water, almost every Sunday from now until mid August with a club and a buddy tournament series. I have offered to take her fishing with me, but without a boat of our/my own it is difficult to get the same experience (or pre-fish with her along). How do you guys do it? I love her dearly, but like the song says I love to fish.
I'm 38 years old, my only child is 18, and have not had to answer to another human being about my hobbies (or anything else really) since I moved out of my folks house at 19. We can afford to do things, we just don't seem to have the time anymore. I suddenly have all of my weeknights free, and now it's Sunday mornings that she wants.
She was married to a man who really was not a partner to her other than sharing the house, she seems scared that I will become the same way. I am at a loss as to how to find a compromise between spending time with the woman I am planning to spend the rest of my life with, and spending time with a line in the water. You guys (I'm sure) have all kinds of experiences with this... Bestow your wisdom upon me
I know, I try to keep things light and fun, but it's been bugging me lately