Tipp,
You're one of my favorite dudes here and it's always nice to hear from you. Sounds like life has thrown you some curves, but you're doing the right thing. I hope your lady is feeling better, and your friends are there for you just as you're there for them. As far as work is concerned, if you want to be an engineer then just do it. Otherwise you'll regret it later.
Hang in there pal. It's nice to hear from you.