I started with all 3 of my daughters the same way
1) pick a day after several days of the same weather, then take them one at a time, (about 3 years old) crappie or bluegill fishing with a bobber and worms. ,....allbeit from boat or shore
2) you are there for them, dont plan on fishing at all. dont even bring a rod for you
3) explain on the way to the lake whats to be expected from them, ie: watching the bobber, setting the hook etc.
4) make sure they have a hat, sunglasses, sunscreen, bug spray, bathing suit on, food and drinks. and a camera for that firrst fish is a must
5) if they get the boredom thing fired up,.stop fishing and let them swim,or eat, or explore, catch crayfish,, a diversion if u will.
6) be diligent about teaching them everything they need to know, like: dont reel when the drags pulling to avoid line twist, distance from rod tip hook needs to be before casting, how to load the rod for casting, how to point the rod at the spot they want to cast to and cast with the rod ending up pointing at it again or,.... "right at it" etc. ,...you're interaction here is paramount
7) and probably the most important, point out the beauty of nature, like: the huge blue heron near the shore, the turtles sunning on the laydown, a eagle flying high, the otters and other animals on shore,.. the views from the boat lookin down the lake, sunrise or sunset, dragonflies on the lilys . the crayfish pincers sticking out of the fishes throat etc. meaning , give them something visual to add to the experience
reason being,.. these will be the days they will forever remember,.. make it as notable as you can, if the fish dont co-operate? head home, come back another day
the idea is to get them "bit",...once they finally catch one they will want another
then as they got older my girlfriend and i took the kids camping for a week on a notable lake in maine, and this time i took them out together gave them all a spinning rod with a special jerkbait i use there for smallies,..now they all want to go smallie fishing.
I beleive that the agressive smallies really "bites" the kids into wanting that thrill again, the jumping and fight they put up on light line, their beautiful coloring in clear water really amazed the girls as well,.... almost as much as that red eye
to my amazement all three of my teenaged girls werent fighting (as drama laden teen girls normally do), they were actually interacting with each other, helping each other, acting polite, thoughtful, and respectful,....... we all had the best day on the water we ever had.and i couldnt have been prouder of them all
Seeing as im seperated from their mom and only see them every other weekend, it brought a tear to my eye to see them interact in a peaceful manner.
Only downfall? now they all want their own rods and lures,...lol