Be prepared for this:
Family law IS gender bias.
Family law is AN INDUSTRY and your Attorney will bill you in six minute increments at an average of $21.50 per increment.
The attorney will string the process out as long as they can.
Stay out of court but, if the mother files a motion for a parenting plan, do not try and represent yourself Pro Se. You'll regret it.
Be prepared to spend three to ten grand right off the bat.
If the mother enters a motion for a temporary parenting plan and requests a guardian at litem, (GAL) research that person's back ground as there have been GAL's that actually were employed by the a mother's attorney's law firm. You have 30 days to file for impeachment if the GAL looks suspect.
If you are assigned a GAL, they will conduct an " investigation" and get well paid for it and you will see a substantial portion of that fee. Your personal life will be an open book. The truth will mean little and context means nothing to some GAL's. I have read GAL reports that were an abomination as an objective investigation.
A GAL report will most likely have recommendations for the parenting plan attached. Be prepared for a gender bias report. The recommendations will be from a template and only modified.
Family law judges are often pro tem, commissioners and or family law attorneys themselves. The good old boy relationships are very real. Pick your attorney carefully. Father's attempting to speak in court are often cut off at the knees by the "judge."
Your attorney will give you directives and advice in serving motions. Any legitimate attorney will have motions and accompanying paperwork served by a paid server. Don't serve paperwork or be present at a service. Remain above reproach.
Try and come to a quick and equitable resolution outside of trial.
The process will drain you emotionally, physically and financially.
This information is not all inclusive. It's complex. Do not expect fairness.
Now:
Unless a Court has entered an Order limiting your parental rights.... You have exactly 50% of all parental rights and rights to custody of your child. Police cannot enforce civil Orders such as parenting plans or custody disputes outside of a valid Order denying your right to custody. Violations require a contempt motion. Orders such as Restraining Orders or No Contact Orders will have a criminal legend and violation can result in an/your arrest.
Find someone you trust that has experienced this process and listen to them. Do your research well in advance.
Document everything. Document everything. Document everything. Be patient and keep your calm. Don't allow resentment toward anyone effect your love for your daughter. AVOID social media going forward.
I am not attorney. This is not legal advice, just a warning. Each state has their own constitution and may trump some of what I shared with you. I hope your situation will not get ugly. Some get very very ugly. Good luck young man.