ahahaha thats great...and true. and ya know im young but i can tell ya chicks can smell self-pity too. bassresource is a great site for support and help...i've learned much. but excuse me, maybe im the only one who thinks this and if so ill gladly delete this post, but for sometime your topics have made everyone sorry for you. and no amount of compliments or suggestions of change with do anything for you, be assertive and quit moping. with all that said, good luck.