I can't believe I am just seeing this post, but I absolutely love that somebody said it, and reading all of the responses that it has generated. I look at the topic as someone who fishes competitively from the front and back (I am a boat owner but fish as a co-angler in big tournaments), charters a boat and has been on a chartered boat, and regularly fun fish from both my boat and others. All that I can say is that if I planned on going out fishing, whether it be for fun or for a tournament, and someone wanted to go along, I will NEVER ASK for help paying for gas, launch, etc.....A lot of the people I take out are just learning, do not get to make it out on the water much, or whatever, so to me as long as they are appreciative of getting the opportunity to go out, that is all that matters. I spend more money that what I think is reasonable on fishing every year, and in the grand scheme of things, the gas money I would be asking for is peanuts compared to all of the other expenses. I will however take $10-20 for gas/launch/lunch but only if someone offers and is adamant about helping pay for gas.
There is nothing more frustrating to me than seeing how cheap some people can be about petty expenses such as this. If you are so invested into fishing, and you love to do it, you should 100% not be expecting someone else to help you cover the cost. I fished a big tournament recently and I knew that all we would do all day was fish docks. My boater had been there pre-fishing for 3 days, had a very expensive boat, and I'm sure the trip cost him a lot more than it did for me. I gave him $50 before I even backed his boat in the water, and when he finished in the top 5 he gave it right back, as he had a pretty nice pay day, and back boated me the entire day (not because he was a jerk, just the nature of the fishery).
The point of my rant is, do not have any hard feelings if a co-angler, friend, or family member comes on your boat and doesn't give you money, but be twice as appreciative when they do without you asking. The beauty of this sport, and life, is sharing it with others. Fishing by yourself is boring anyway
.......................and if you can't afford gas money you should find a different hobby or a better job!