Bill, you have a gift for drawing the attention to the beauty of this world. Your optimism and joy in things lifts my spirit! And truly it's a good thing not to focus on negativity.
But MrsBassAssassin, I believe, has an excellent point. Women tend to be competitive with each other when it comes to attracting positive male attention. A confident woman who fishes and does it well is often in the company of admiring guys. Some women find this threatening! Men are fiercely competitive with each other and status conscious also, but in a different way usually I think. It's more about success. Could be that's why men started tournaments. My experience with non-fishing females sometimes is similar to MrsBassAssassin's, unfortunately. But fishing women I run into usually are pleased and even relieved to meet another female angler!
Some men are hostile to a woman fishing, some are pleased. Some women are hostile, some are pleased. In my experience it's for different reasons. Each gender has prejudice. For women, MrsBassAssasin' brought up an important point. It's hard for us to face. And really, I usually don't talk so much.....