I am 61 years old and own a Bass Raider 10E and use my Toyota Tundra to haul it around all the time. Loading and unloading it by myself with not problem. I do have a harbor freight trailer though that I have used for a while also, just makes it a lot easier getting it in and out of the water with a 4.5 outboard.
As for standing and fishing, I have done it but not much of a fan for this even on a big boat.