i feel yalls pain bro!!! my boys mom put me in over 30,000 in debt, got her repoed(in my name of corse), i get my boy all week, n everyother weekend, luckily she moved an hour and half away, she would pop up every once in awhile at his ball games and stuff and try to act like mom of the year. she still tries to do that today. but i sold one of my trucks to try to clear my name of the debt, i even helped her out a little when she was down and out, shes been arrested 2 times for felony bogus checks and tried to beat me up at the gym one night!!! lol so theres an A n B charge, she even got her pic in the local mug shot paper a few times, had her name in the paper in the public records and not for death, birth or marriage!!! felony docket bro! lol but its a mess for real, hell shes a mess, and walks around like nothing ya kno? trying to act like shes something special!!! but either or man, i feel ya bro! keep on keeping on and live them kids for sure!!! they will remember that stuff cz mines 7 and hes already asked how come mom this and how come mom that questions, but im not gonna bad mouth his mom, just tell that she loves him is all and probly busy ya kno. busy getting arrested!!! lol jk jk but hope all you guys are well in your situations and hope they get better!!!