Heres the deal......I will NEVER lie to my wife. What I will do is skirt the truth as long as possible hahaha
My wife is a great woman. As long as bills are paid (on time) , savings continue to grow (cant take any money out of savings without an agreement) etc I can spend as much of my personal money as I want. She asks zero questions.
Also, my wife and children always come first. I dont care if the bite is the best in history, if my kids need their dad or my wife needs her husband im there no questions asked.