my brother in law is getting married this Saturday in Athens, GA! the upside is that we're going to play golf at the UGA course so i'm pretty stoked about that!
when i got married, i was very blunt about it. if you don't want to come, i won't be at all disapppointed, just don't come out of any "obligation". also, for that reason, i only really invited people that i really liked and wanted there.