Boy do I remember these days ... My first setup was an Abu Garcia SilverMax combo I got in DSG. No matter how much research I did on line, lures, weight, balance etc. I totally sucked at using the baitcaster. It was downright infuriating how much line I went through (backlashes) until I was able to train myself how to use it properly. It took time and a lot of practice and now I have zero regrets with the time I spent.
Hang in there and good luck.
By the way ... I still have that SilverMax. It is still a part of my arsenal and I love it!!! It has some higher quality brothers and sisters BUT it's still my #1.