I usually stay out of these things, but I happen to have some insight. Bear with me. I have been around the block a few times and it is no longer a trip I'm willing to take. I have been married for 13 years now, and have been with my present wife over 15 years. I have had many experiences with women, and was even married once before I met my present wife. A lot of my time and efforts for a long time were spent on hot women. As I got older, I learned the hotties expry date comes up much faster than the ones for women lower on the scale. Many of them are accustomed to certain considerations I am not willing to make. Once I stopped hunting 10's and switched to 5's or better, my options got much better. I found out that it is more important to have a girl with a compatible personality than to have one that looks hot all the time. It got to where I wouldn't hardly even give a really hot girl a chance. I also found that by widening my horizon, the quality really picked up, and I was having more fun. Eventually I found a girl I could spend time with without checking my watch every 5 minutes, one who shares many interests, is a gourmet cook, and doesn't mind my killing animals and skinning them in the backyard. She's usually out there wanting steaks cut. She;s 6'3" to my 6'5", and still looks pretty good after 4 kids. Most of all, we each know we can depend on each other, and that counts more than you can know until it is tested.