Last season I was fishing with a club that was very well managed & organized, had some great anglers, and a busy schedule (at least 2 tournamets per month all over the state). Toward the end of the summer my Mother was diagnosed with breat cancer, so naturally I turned all of my attention and time toward my family. Between my mother being sick, and work, there wasn't much time left for fishing. I made it to the tourneys that were close to home, and ended up in 5th with Lunker of the year. I qualified to fish the Bass Bowl, a regional tournament that includes the top 6 anglers from 20 clubs in the South Jersey area, but I couldnt afford to leave my Mother & work for 4 days at that time, so the next angler in line took my place and they won the event. That was a catalyst for them to become B.A.S.S affiliated. Their schedule this year was over 25 tourneys, with 4 out of state, and the rest spread out all over NJ. It was just not feasable financially or time wise for me to do another season with them.
Thank the good Lord my Mother has made a full recovery, and in March I was able to sell my old trihull and finally buy a 96 Tracker Pro Team 17 in excellent condition, something I've been wanting for years. I wanted to replace the bow mount motor with a newer, more powerful one, replace the batteries & on board charger, add a newer fishfinder to the deck, and a kicker bracket for a transom mount trolling motor. So far I've done everything except get a kicker bracket. I was going to take the season off just to fun fish w/my family and work on my new boat, However, I had a fishing buddy hounding me all winter to join his local club. They had a much more relaxed schedule than the last club I fished with, one tournament per month, all within an hour of home, and you fish with a partner all season. I decided to join last minute as my mother was doing extremely well, and my partner offered to have us fish on his boat until mine was ready to go.
We fished the first tournament together. I missed the second because my family and I decided to take a vacation in celebration of my Mothers good health. The third tournament is coming up next week and things aren't looking so great. A couple of weeks ago my partner let a racial slur slip out in front of me, I expressed my resentment toward his comment, kept my cool, but put some distance between us.
Last week my partner called me saying that we wouldn't be fishing on the same boat for the next tournament. He said that apparently the club president decided to fish on a new members Nitro (who I brought into the club), while he fished with the club presidents partner, who doesn't have his boaters license.
Leaving me as the only one fishing by myself for 8 hours on a 760 acre electric only reservior that gets REALLY windy (3' whitecaps & strong current) with one 55lb motor and 1 optima blue top pushing a 17' boat. I expressed to him that I wasn't really comfortable bringing my boat out on that lake just yet, and he had no answer, he kind of pushed the blame on the club president. I contacted the club president who only has a 12' V-Hull and doesn't want to take it out on this lake, and also was questioning whether my partner and I were even partners anymore?? He said I could either fish with the new member, or fish with him on his "little boat". In the end I agreed to fish solo, since it seemed like everyone had already decided this was how it was going to be. My partner called me shortly after and asked me if I was going to fish the next open buddy with anyone else because he wanted to invite a friend of his to fish on his boat.
I'm seriously considering just taking the rest of the season off, there are only 5 tournaments left after this next one. I have to take off Saturdays to make it to these events, which costs me about $300 everytime. I've NEVER been the type to commit to something then back out, and I don't like people that do that either. However I'm really feeling like I'm being left high and dry by my partner. Sorry for the long post, but I wanted you guys to get an idea of why im at this point...What do you guys think??