I'm like most of y'all.
My 4 year old is learning discipline and respect. My wife and I refuse to have it any other way. There have already been numerous times that we have absolutely stopped what we are doing and disciplined or took away something that our daughter wanted or wanted to do. Example, we made it all the way to the parking lot of a restraunt one evening. Our daughter had a toy with her that she insisted on bringing in. It just wasn't the place for a toy. We told her twice to leave it in the car. When she said she was bringing it, I put her back in the car seat and we drove home, no dinner out. She cried the whole way home because she wanted to eat out. Sure, we the parents wanted to eat out also and suffered as well but if that's what it takes, then so be it. She rarely talks back now......
Now, on the subject of lack of discipline, you'd be absolutely amazed what I've seen. I've had calls at work to see complainants about problems with kids. We show up and it's parents wanting US, THE POLICE to discipline their kids. What a crock, accept responsibility and do it yourself. You were adult enough to have kids, man up, I'm not your kids parent YOU ARE.
I refuse to scare a child, not my job. The last thing I want is for a child to be afraid of Police.
And, may I add, I was on the receiving end of a belt, paddle (even in grade school, LOL), and hand, many times. I deserved each and every swat I got. Not condoning abuse but IMHO there is something to be said about a good swat from time to time.