Oh I understand hard times also heck I'm having them this month is killing me with my boys Bday party, Mother's Day, two weddings my boys are both in(tuxes for a 2 and 4 year old are ridiculous but that could be a whole new rant lol) plus all other bills things are just right this month. I don't care if you need help and get it but do t be a low life about it. I used to get assistance when I was working for the school I didn't make enough but now they say I do even though 75% of my check goes to daycare alone it's almost pointless for my wife to work honestly cuz daycare is almost her entire check of she was to pay it but I told her I would cover it since I get paid weekly.