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clayton86

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  1. I cant stand her couldn't name any of her songs lol.
  2. Yeah I hope so I'm being nice to her "killing her with kindness" as I was recommended. I just got off the phones with the banks and got all that squared away. I'v puked I kid you not like 30 times today though just thinking bout things and the fact my youngest son knows another man more then me his father its sickening. I'm trying to find the silver lining in all of this though like fishing now I will be able to fish without her bugging me to make sure I'm really fishing and not cheating yeah it was like that JF can contest to it when I had to have him send me the videos of us fishing to prove to her. I will actually save money now even though I'm giving her some support its only 25% not 99% what she had been spending on who knows what. I planned on buying some new rifles when I got home I can just do it now well once I know about lawyer fees but once all is said and done hey them new Revos yup they can be mine if I wish a .17 hot rod rifle for coyotes yup buy it with no consequences. I can actually get stuff for my boys with out asking her or having her tell me no so she can spend it else where. So I'm trying to find the positive in all this its extremely tough and not gonna lie I just randomly start crying doing things but oh well **** happens for a reason I guess.
  3. Thanks guys Iv been talking with friends I'm on gates today and been talking here and there with the guys. There surprised I'm not keeping it bottled up but I can't I will go nuts it's hard not to now as it is.
  4. hell yeah
  5. Thanks guys and all of you who have been PM'ing me as well thanks its been rough today I'v got alot of support though from you guys and my squad there all been there to talk to always checking on me. just gotta KCCO! we'll see how many people know what that is about lol.
  6. I cant wait to get out there to your lake farmer gonna I got some buddy's out that way that coyote hunt a lot to gonna try and hit up the lake and call some coyotes all one trip.
  7. well we don't own anything we have rented this whole time we seriously only have a truck that's it.
  8. oh I have our entire skype history backed up 3x plus screen shots of the texts she sent me coming forward everything since has been threw email. I have . ALOT of dirt on her id rather not have to bring it up but if her claws come out so will mine.
  9. Yeah I dont know my head is just spinning and confused. I was balling like a school girl earlier I mean ya ever seen a 185lb guy carrying a medium machine gun crying like a ***** lol. Now iv been to the gym and said it so many times whats happened I laugh about it then I get sad again then I just start laughing uncontrollably.
  10. yeah trucking and re enlisting are def out of the picture now. LEO job probably also if I see this guy on the streets......
  11. Thanks guys this has been a week from hell to it all started on the 25th our wedding anniversary. Thanks I have an appointment on the 4th with a JAG lawyer its the best I can do from over here and will also be icing on the cake considering that is also my birthday like I said its been the week from hell. Me and the wife I guess I can still call her that for now but we took a break 2.5 years ago and started the process of splitting and I never bad mouthed her once her on the other hand told my son all kinds of crap none of which was true and even this time when she has had another man in front of them I'm sure she is still bad mouthing me its just how she is. My parents split when i was 2 I think I'm not sure I was to young to remember but I think I was 2ish my father never once to this day has ever bad mouthed my mother not a single mean thing and has gotten on me when I have talked crap about her my mom on the other hand still to this day talks crap about my dad and ticks me off its been 24 years now and I'm old enough to see threw the BS when she talks about him. I will follow how I did before and like my dad and not bad mouth her in front of them heck I don't now to bad guys in my squad are and I'm getting upset with them. I'm not sure if I will even need a divorce because we don't own anything and everything I mean everything is in my name and has been sense before we were married only thing we have together is the truck which is also 100% in my name shes not anywhere on it. Legal separation will probably be best its a heck of a lot cheaper and we don't have anything to split but the kids. Now with the kids we have to see a specialist about anyways to see whats in best interest for them and yes most courts favor the wife I have more then enough to make them think differently saved on my external on my laptop and backed up again online plus her history as well is still on file with the county shes no angel. So the kids we have to see the same person regardless of a divorce or legal sep. and we have nothing to fight over property wise that and I'm not much of a fighter anymore she can have all the crap we bought together I don't want it knowing just yeah don't want the couches and new bed nope nope nope. I dont know though she seems to be civil right now actually begging and pleading
  12. yeah she admitted it finally today while I was on shift up in the turret on a gun truck she messaged me saying it. I have 6 weeks left in this deployment till im home I had to plead not to go home now because i need all the money I can get right now they had spend it all I have .67 cents in my account till tomorrow in which time I gotta take all but 25% out. It does feel like my world is coming to a crashing end I don't know what I'm more angry about the fact she did it or for this long and all the lies or the fact hes been living under my roof in my bed with my wife and my kids and my furniture and TV hell he probably used my fishing gear. I also came to find out yesterday once I really started getting hard on her about if she was he packed up all his stuff and got the hell out of dodge leaving her stranded he used her and abused her filled her head with stuff leached off my paychecks then got out probably sensing I'm gonna kill him when I get back. So now I'm also mad he used my wife it doesn't make any sense I mean I love her to death even still to the point I'm furious the man she cheated on me with has hurt her and I wanna beat him to a pulp for it. I mean does that make and sense I swear I'm going nuts. I feel bad for her because everything I mean everything is in my name so I'm shutting it all down I gotta call the dealership have them come get the truck she bought in my name I canceled all the credit cards and bank accounts but 1 the one I will deposit her support into. The guy is on unemployment cant hold a job has a drinking issue thinks hes king **** on turd hill attitude once he found out the money isn't coming in with her he bailed.
  13. So if you guys remember a few months ago I asked about going with your gut feelings. Everyone here was right as much as I hate to admit it as much as it hurts you were all right. I just found out today shes been cheating for a few months now while iv been gone. Iv been spending the last day or two changing all bank accounts and everything. My mind is just bugging out I have no idea what to think or do just mass confusion. I'm so lost I mean I kinda knew for a while but I didn't want to believe it and she denied it and her being my wife I gave her the benefit of the doubt and believed her and trusted her. so I guess I should have taken all the advice from you guys back in August but I didn't want to think she would do this but I was wrong.
  14. Try LMC truck I think it is
  15. Every time I go to Ft. Drum is me or us my unit vs mother nature. One time though not involving Drum was when I was maybe 15 out fishing with some buddy's behind his house and a storm had rolled in. We fished as long as we could till it started hailing and thunder and lightning. We jumped on the 4 wheelers and high tailed out of there. We were dodging falling trees in the woods on our way back till we got to the road. That was painful as hail the size of like a small grape or marbles hurt like hell when racing home on a 4 wheeler. Then there was fishing with J Francho last fall on lake Ontario actually was like exactly a year ago this week if I remember correctly. That wasn't to bad other then racing to get into the shelter of the bay watching John race his xpress looking out a little hole in his hoodie to see out of he had it cinched down so tight around his face.
  16. a faithful wife........... and yes my kids are my world there the reason iv made some sacrifices iv made so they can have the best toys the best clothes and see the best pediatrition in WNY so what if I don't have all new revos and a bass boat yet or even a vehicle to get to point a and b. I would gladly live the life of rags on the street if it meant my 2 boys had a good life.
  17. my first non field car I bought was a 98 Z24 cavalier, first thing I bought with my very first paycheck that wasnt under the table when I was 15 a pair of 300 dollar Oakleys I sat on a week later and broke..... I dont have to many big purchases or significant ones iv never bought a house or anything really iv had a crap ton of cars thats bout it I'v made it to 26 with out really having much of anything for myself and probably will continue that way.
  18. OUCH!!!!!!! I'm in pain just thinking that
  19. just reading your post made me cringe the thought of it. I personally haven't had them but iv heard there extremely painful we had a guy get them at MOB station and it knocked him out of this deployment and they sent him home he was on bed rest for a while and ticking blood like crazy.
  20. I'm gonna be that guy and say no body likes a quitter lol jk keep it up man
  21. Bullet selection comes into play if your serious bout protection in my opinion. Me and a close buddy here in my squad were having a conversation about this just the other day. His house has been broken into 4 times in the last 2 years and just this year while home on leave he was in his restaurant and had a guy pull a gun in his restaurant. He lives and has his business in a not to nice neighborhood in Rochester. He was asking me and a few other "rednecks" about picking up a shot gun for home defense and he wants to get a AR/M4 as well. I told him well the AR may look intimidating its not the best choice we told him get his pistol permit and a mossberg 500 with the cheapest smallest shot possible. He was concerned bout collateral damage and his kids which is why I told him chill shot as its not gonna go threw the walls unless your point blank with it. Then we got into discussion on bullet choices for hand guns. which is where most people I think are lacking in knowledge even most hunters. They make rounds both factory and components for reload that are low velocity and the bullets are made to go in and not come out or stop when they hit something and not go threw the next 3 rooms. Most people stock up on Mil surplus which is FMJ and some times has a steel core. That stuff is made to go threw armor, walls, cars you name it its not the best choice for HD unless you wanna worry bout hitting family or even your neighbors in there house. Look stuff up on youtube if your curious what does what ammo wise there are tons of guys with videos shooting into things to see what the bullet does like when the Zmax ammo came out a guy loaded up some in a 45 I think and shot it into a pair of jeans in a pool then into a dead pig wearing the same jeans. Perfect pedal of the bullet and only went in a few inches and didn't come out. To me the plastic tipped bullets are great for HD they go in and don't come out they will do 100% more damage then FMJ or ball type ammo made for plinking and geneva convention. The plastic tipped and HD rated ammo are made to stop when they hit walls and such or some like the max line up from hornady most of them explode and disintegrate on contact with stuff that's hard even 2x4s and plywood yeah it goes threw plywood but if you ever shoot and have another piece behind it or cardboard look and see what it does its mostly just shrapnel.
  22. I did a quick search for LEO jobs in my area there are none what so ever no county jobs or state. I went for CO a few years ago got a 87 on the test was like 12## on the list I was told that was really good but that's all I heard got a letter saying my score and ranking talked to a few CO buddies they all said that's a good spot because 3/4s of the people in front of me probably wont make it threw all the screening. I never heard or got anything back I called the state and county to see where my application was and they had no clue I even took the civil service test. I even looked into conservation officer no luck there either. Yeah truck driving will probably suck but it looks like one of my only options since what ever I do I need lined up for 2 weeks after I get back when ever the hell that will be.
  23. do you mean like an AR or a bolt rifle. Me my .243 I wouldn't want in home defense unless well no I wouldn't want it lol. I cant hit the broad side of a barn with it up close you get out there a little ways and I'll put it between your eyes every time but Iv missed 2 woodchucks with it under 20 yards keep forgetting you gotta aim high up close. Now an AR no problem we just did some shoot houses last week I would have no problem using an AR for home defense.
  24. Yeah IDK I need a secure job there's no LE jobs in my area. When I was younger its what I wanted to do but now idk I just need something to put food on the table and not really have to worry wether or not I can find work. Trucking there is always work to be had.
  25. yeah the ground sucking it up was the coolest part seeing it downpour but not be wet was crazy back home that much rain would have caused standing water all over and a few small streams to flood for like a day but here it just evaporated or was soaked up instantly. Now when I was in so cal for a month at Ft Irwin it never rained either it mudded lol mud would seriously fall from the sky it was so dusty and sandy with so much sand in the air when it rained which wasn't much it seriously dropped little mud/sand balls. Then there's Ft Drum and Camp Shelby them places the rain is like the size of a golf balls and never stops lol,
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