Last call? Well just one more for the road!
Like a few others I have had my issues with alcohol and various drugs. From 74 thru January of 85 I tried hard to prove I was a social user. I was not. I won't go into the details, but once I finally quit I spent a couple of years trying to figure out why I could not have an occasional drink and others could.
I do not believe that everyone who abuses alcohol is dependent. Some go through stages where they abuse it and then move on. There have been some here though who dismiss the idea of dependency as a disease, that it is simply an excuse for lack of self control. With all due respect, I believe you are wrong, and I think science is on my side. Alcoholism goes way back in my family. I was skeptical that there could be a genetic link, but there appears to be. The way a drunks body metabolizes alcohol is different from normal drinkers. The way it effects the pleasure sensors in the brain is different. The euphoria is more intense. I think there is value in knowing that some of us are more at risk to abuse substances than others. My daughter was well aware of the family history before she had to make her own decisions.
For me alcohol is not an option and I think many folks would be better off without it. Ask me to partake and I will politely say no thanks. If you choose to drink that is your own business. Cheers.