Were you bullied when you were younger? Usually those who were bullied exhibit behaviors like this. It's like a revolving door, keeps going around and around. You were picked on by someone, then you in turn pick on others to boost your self-esteem. Oh well, tough cycle to get out of. I am lucky enough to have thick skin, never got caught in the trap. But congrats on the rings, I bet you were an intregal part of the team.