I agree to an extent. If you fish, you need to be responsible for the fish that get mortally injured. I hate gut hooking them, and I dislike seeing them bleeding profusely, but it happens, its inevitable, and most people have empathy for them when it happens, I know I do. When I do injure them beyond recovery though, I take them home to make sure they dont go to waste. With my 5 year old son, I tell him that since we injured the fish, its our fault that he is going to die, and so its our responsibility to make sure that he doesnt go to waste. We take him home and eat him. We dont throw him back and "hope for the best". However, I also have a daughter, and I won't be able to be as blunt with her when she comes of age because she wouldnt understand the "matter of fact" simplicity of the situation and just accept it like my boy does. The circle of life topic would definately be broached, but it would be with us taking the fish home to eat because we are the ones responsible for it's death.
ps, I would never recommend staying home and playing video games with kids instead of fishing with them.
Not sure I understand why a different explanation is needed for a girl, 5 years of age vs. a boy the same age. That young girl is just as capable of understanding the circle of life along with the taking of fish for consumption due to deep hooking as the young boy is.
Sounds like you're ready to patronize your daughter and not give her the benefit of the doubt for her emotional capabilities compared to your son. Children, even at that young of age, boy or girl, are quite capable of handling the emotions of a situation like that if the parent takes the time to explain it to them.
my daughter is tougher than my son. she doesnt complain near as much when she gets hurt, doesn't whine near as much, and can easily hang with boys older than her. Boys and girls at the age of 5 are both capable of understanding far more than the circle of life, girls in particular because they generally progress quicker mentally at that age than boys. But you missed the point, i wasnt referring to all boys or all girls, I was referring to one girl, my daughter who I am raising and interacting with every day. My circle of life comment was directed for her, not for all girls, just her. She is very tenderhearted when it comes to animals or insects. She is as advanced physically and mentally as my son was at her age, but she is far more emotional when it comes to animals and living things. Its not a matter of patronizing my daughter, its a matter of knowing how she reacts to animals/insects/any living thing getting hurt. My post was not to say that all girls need the circle of life speach because they dont, just as many boys need it as girls because its not determined by the child's sex, its about empathy, and some children have more than others. My daughter is not one to accept and listen to "its the way it is, get over it" and be fine with it, but my boy is. That is not to say she isnt tough, or isnt as resilient physically or mentally, its just that she is very tenderhearted towards living things, much more so than my son was at that age. Because of that, she will require more finnesse than he will, and its not because she is a girl! Its because she is much more tenderhearted than he is and requires a little more understanding to accept animals being hurt.