Sorry about that first part, I should have added an LOL smiley to it.
As far at what is admissible or not with regards to the taped conversation, I'm not a lawyer, so who knows. I know a wire tap isn't legal in a criminal trial unless a search warrant allowed for it. This is a civil matter so it may or may not be different.
I held off commenting here because to be quite honest, I think it's a complete joke. An 80 year old feeling his oats hires a 30 year old, gives her a one million dollar home, all other kinds of perks and benefits cash wise. Then the old guy's family, probably fearing the loss of inheritance, takes her to court on embezzlement charges. The wife and half the team's office swear nothing is going on. Then the gold digger in question then releases taped conversations where the old coot is threatening her because of who she is hanging out with. Fans, media, athletes, and more than a few advertisers are all up in arms, and the other NBA owners, through their hired commissioner decides the side show is a drag on their product and wants to give him the heave-ho.
Nobody in this whole situation is going to scream winner at the end of this, if it ever ends. The entire family and the bimbo are getting their dirty laundry drug out in the streets. 35% of the public thinks the NBA doesn't have the right to kick this guy out, and the other 65% know that this won't cure the problem of racism in either the NBA or in life in general no matter how it ends. Even if the old man does get the NBA to halt a forced sale, I can't imagine that some of his heirs aren't going to be back in court trying to take control of his assets.
At the end of the day, I'll bet most of us have problems of our own to deal with. I know I do. The only possible plus out of this story is that it gives us the chance to be thankful we aren't personally involved in this circus!