I agree. If they at least offer, and they are sincere, then to me that is usually enough; but sometimes the offer seems grudging, or at least a bit hopeful it will be turned down.
Plus, failure to offer to get the boat ready to fish or disappearing as soon as it is pulled out and parked at the parking area and/or leaving it full of trash is especially irritating-especially when not fishing in a tournament and just fishing for fun.