I've been in male oriented careers all my life and from family of outdoors men and women. They raised bird dogs and hunted every season, then fished in between or during them. I don't let other's opinions get in the way of enjoying something I love to do, especially since it is legal. If someone tells me I can't do something just because I'm a woman, It usually makes me try harder at it. I've fished since I was old enough to hold a cane pole and bait my own hook. I was always encouraged by the family and in fact it was expected that I know how to catch it, clean it and cook it.
I found a fantastic man who is a wonderful fishing partner, who doesn't mind and in fact encourages me to get out and fish, even if it is by myself or with someone else. (He found out that some fishermen will give me tips on lures that wouldn't breathe a word about it to others.) By fishing in local Sunday afternoon tournament by myself, I made contact with a fellow,now a friend, who ran a monthly couples tournament.This was much more affordable than what we were doing, it put us in contact with other couples who lived locally and loved to fish, which led to fishing in a larger monthly tournament called Weekend Warriors Bass club. We now fish both, have a great time, and right now I'm the only woman to fish in the Warriors club. We've ended up placing 1st and had Big Bass on Lake Kissimmee,where I caught the big bass. This made the other guys take notice. We moved from 11th to tied for 4th in that. We moved up again the next one, where I caught the only fish. That kept us in the top ten, since that is a tough lake and alot of teams didn't even catch a fish (14" +minimum). This last Saturday was a fun, no points tournament on Lake Garcia and Hubby was happy to be netman for me. I caught a 1.9 lb, 3lb, 4.9lb, and a 5.50lb, coming in 3rd place with less than 1 lb between 3rd and 1st, and missed Big Bass by less than 3 ounces. I've now been nicknamed BFL (Big Fish Lisa) lol. Some of the guys were even asking me what lure I was using. Just "one of the guy's now"
To go fishing, hearing the wildlife, gators calling and carrying on disagreements with each other, the waterfowl making their racket in the pre-dawn while you are waiting for safe light and the only thing that seems to be missing is Tarzan's Yell. That is part of an experience and making memories that will last until I can't fish anymore. I've enjoyed meeting and being Caption for the PVA and Wounded Warriors. They didn't have a problem with being assigned to a female captain and their wives didn't complain. I've encouraged other ladies to get out an fish and told soem to take their little girls fishing.