This touches a number of us here. I'm sincerely sorry to hear of this @NorthernBasser. Tresa and I have added you to our prayer list.
It's difficult to say/type the words that let you know how much the sorrow we feel is real.
Lean on us. We're here for what solace we can provide. Love and prayer; powerful tools. Reach out to us and we'll listen. Reach out to us and we'll do what little we can to help you in any way we can.
Lastly, as has been said, we're family here. This family is close. I know you're full of a million emotions right now. I also know that this family will always be here for you.