Wow, I'm sorry to read that. You have my deepest sympathy.
I wanted to post and tell you about using the attorney general. There should be one for your state, I'm under the impression that there is one for every state.
I had a problem with a hospital surgeon who put me at risk when I had a bad staph infection and was hospitalized for it. He came up to my room to inspect the wound after the ER had drained and packed it the night before to see if anything else was needing to be done for it. He pulled the packing out of the wound, said it looked fine and that a nurse would be in to repack it, then left me that way with all that infection laying loose on my leg. No one else could touch it for fear of infection themselves so I just had to lay there with it spread out like that. Then 3 hours goes by, I'm calling the nurses the whole time and telling them I need attention, even told them why.
They finally come in and are shocked by what they see. They said he had not even signed in on the floor so no record he was there, left no notes for them either. They were not able to repack it as the wound had already started to close up, healing since it no longer had the packing in it.
Then on a follow up visit to my doctor a few days later, she too was shocked that he had done that and said it might have to be reopened again if the antibiotics didn't take care of it on their own.
If you've ever had a staph infection then you know how painful they are, and mine was the size of my fist. I'd rather have a broken leg than go through that again. Fortunately for me, it did not have to be reopened and after 2 weeks of antibiotics, I was fine.
But hearing that, and worrying about it for that long, I decided I was not going to be paying his bill in full. He had the nerve to send me a bill for $176. I said he was deserving of something because he came in and did "some" of his job looking at the wound to see if it needed further attention. That was him using his knowledge to benefit me. But he did not take care of me fully so I did not feel I should pay his entire bill. So I called his office and requested the bill be cut down.
His office manager wholly disagreed with my assessment of it. After several months of fighting them on it, several calls where they finally said they would not talk to me about it anymore, and several letters sent to me saying it was going to collections, and even finally talking to a collector............I said I was calling the attorney general.
I did, and they sent me a paper to fill out telling my story and what I would like as an outcome to this. I said I'd agree to pay $100 only. No more. I never heard anymore about it until I got a new bill from the surgeon with a $100 balance showing.
It was a small victory for me, but I got exactly what I wanted out of it, they know they were wrong and even though they thought they could strong arm me, they could not do the same against the attorney general.
This is a free public service, it's not like you are hiring an attorney at law. It's not the same thing. It just took me one phone call to them to get it done.