remember she should be you friend, wife then lover in that order never go any place alone that you would not take her.some of the best dates we have had were spent at home.unplug the TV ,send the kids to a sitter(if any),turn off the phones(cells also)don't forget the computer.buy a better wine than 20/20(may be strawberry hill)while at the store buy two stakes,potatoes,onions,mushrooms cook them together.talk about where yall want to go in you marriage don't look in the pass to long(just long enuf to see your coarse)don't bring up the bad and remember the date does not stop at the end of the night treat her like you lady. good luck