Be the fish..... Sorry, I couldn't help it (Now I gotta go watch Caddy Shack) After having worked with and for some pro athletes (real athletes not anglers) This is the common thread, I've found, almost without exception, the best of the best do it "their way" whatever that is, I'm not sure what you are doing that caused the comment (I have a feeling youth may have a lot to do with it too) but you can't change who you are or how you feel about things, ie be true to yourself. For what its worth, I'm a fairly successful tournament angler (real angling, not fresh water), and I find that once having gained the hard earned experience and know how (ie I'm old) the less I think about it and stress, the better I do. I hope that helps.