Here are some I have used and liked. Yum tube, not the vibra King tube on TW, strike king flipping tube, Strike King 3.5" coffee tube, Bass Pro tender tubes, and Swing Oil J tube just about covers it for me, unless you can find the discontinued Trigger X tube which was very solid for me. For me a tube is pretty generic and I might change up the length depending on the bite, but have never put a lot of thought into the diameter of the tube.
As as far as durability, swing oil probably the best, but you can expect multiple fish on pretty much any tube, even the tender tubes which are very soft.
Just make sure sure to get a variety of colors. A tube can imitate it all, from craws to baitfish depending on how you fish em.