I think a lot of this tendency, and MANY anglers have it, has to do with the reason we fish these days. We see fishing as an activity where the objective is to catch fish, and catch as many pounds as possible as quickly as possible. This is, largely, a result of the explosion of tournament angling where, quite literally, dollars are attached to every cast, every pitch, every fish, every minute.
Nitrofreak was on to something when he talked about fishing for cats or whites or whatever as a kid. When we went fishing as kids, we weren't quite as obsessed with everything, we just wanted to go out and have a fun time fishing.
I think if we bass fished more that way, we'd slow down naturally. We wouldn't be worried about whether or not we were "maximizing" our day. We'd realize we maximized our day the second we got in the car to tow the boat to the lake in the first place, before we ever made a cast. We'd also have more fun, be more relaxed, and likely catch more fish, too. We'd spend less money. I don't know about you guys, but I suspect I'd be a lot happier with my favorite pasttime.
So, to the OP, I suggest this. Read Charlie Brewer's book on Slider Fishing. It doesn't really matter if you want to learn how to fish the slider-- its more of a philosophy of fishing than it is a technique. Then, go out and find an old timer, I mean a real old timer. Someone in their 70s or 80s, and see if they'll take you fishing. I went fishing with Ned Kehde one weekend when I was in graduate school, ostensibly to pick his brain about fishing journalism (he's an In-Fisherman field editor), and instead I got a graduate level education in slowing down and keeping it simple and having fun fishing, and the simple joy of getting your line stretched. I also began a journey that I'm still on, toward simplifying every aspect of my life, and slowing down every aspect of my life. So, you might get more than just a fishing tip.