Is it wrong? need some opinions...

[Muddy]

Wow what a cultural difference ! I would be honored if a close friend from the neighborhood wanted to date my sister, I don't get all of this. I guess I just grew up in a different time and place.

[FishingBuds]

Wow what a cultural difference ! I would be honored if a close friend from the neighborhood wanted to date my sister, I don't get all of this. I guess I just grew up in a different time and place.

Its not the same anymore muddy

well how long have you known her?? is she intrested in you??

I knew my best friends sister for two years as a good friend, she would cheer me up when I was bummen about things it seemed she knew how to read me. one day I went to pick up my buddy and he wasn't there, so his sister sat with me on the hood of my car and waited with me, after that day I knew I wanted to ask her out-we got along great, so I told him a week later that I would like to take her out, he didn't care much about it, kinda knew how I was, not that I slept and left but I wouldn't put up with head games so I was known to drop out of site easy. I think he was more worried if I'd get hurt ;D

well that was in 1986(she was 16 and me 17 I think)and I'm proud to say were still married and have two wonderful kids together, and my freind and his lady was just over last night haven early XMAS

[Tin]

Depends.....buddy messed around with my girl, so I got his sister. We beat the heck out of one another....rest is history.

So why not? : ;D

[BrianinMD]

Unfortunately now it seems like people think they are "tough" if they "protect" their sisters. Don't get me wrong, if there is reason to know the guy won't be good for her then by all means protect her. But if you know he is a good guy, and thought about it enough to come to you man to man what is the problem?

On the other side of it, I don't get the idea to just do it without saying something to your buddy. Friends are for a lifetime, good ones are hard to find, why mess that up?

[mattm]

If any of my friends ever hinted about going out with my sister they would get a fist to the face.

Also keep in mind, a breakup with her could lead to an ended friendship with him too.

I don't know why you would be friends with anyone you wouldn't want dating your sister. Your basically saying some ****** of the street you know nothing about is probably better than your friends :-?.

[fathom]

in my youth, i made de sade look like high school.

whichever you choose, choose the high road...don't let your d!!k speak for you.

been there, done that.

[fourbizz]

Risking a friendship:

If youre not perfect friends, go for it.

If shes the perfect girl, go for it.

If he's a great friend and she might just be a little fun, not worth it.

[fishfordollars]

We need pics. This thread is useless without any pics.

[Bassin_Fin@tic]

LOL True ;D ^^

[fish-fighting-illini]

Risking a friendship:

If youre not perfect friends, go for it.

If shes the perfect girl, go for it.

If he's a great friend and she might just be a little fun, not worth it.

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 This is dead on

[bigdog]

What does the friend think?

The friend doesn't know anything yet...hence that's why I posted this thread ;D

tell him fast can be a very bad thing if u wait. remember Scarface

[daviscw]

If any of my friends ever hinted about going out with my sister they would get a fist to the face.

Also keep in mind, a breakup with her could lead to an ended friendship with him too.

I don't know why you would be friends with anyone you wouldn't want dating your sister. Your basically saying some ****** of the street you know nothing about is probably better than your friends :-?.

No, I know how my friends are. You don't know how MY friends are. Yeah, If I had a friend that I approved of I wouldn't mind, but I don't.

[-HAWK-]

If any of my friends ever hinted about going out with my sister they would get a fist to the face.

Also keep in mind, a breakup with her could lead to an ended friendship with him too.

I don't know why you would be friends with anyone you wouldn't want dating your sister. Your basically saying some ****** of the street you know nothing about is probably better than your friends :-?.

Good point Matt, this is probably the best post yet.

[roadwarrior]

Your options are limitless, move on...

[IMPY03]

I really opened up a can of worms on this thread.

thanks for all the replys, I would post pics but I dont think that would be very respectful so sorry guys.

[Siebert Outdoors]

I agree with LBH. Talk to your friend. Just make sure this is a long time relation ship not a one nighter.

If I had a sister I'd much rather her date a really close friend instead of someone I dont know or like.

[moby bass]

My opinion, stay away from ALL women.  They're only trouble.   ;D

[Simp]

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Take it from someone that has 1/2 brothers and sisters there is no difference.

Mattm also hit it perfect here. I don't understand the thinking of "well it's only his half sister". There is no difference, I have a half sister and frankly there is no such thing. She is my sister period! I have the exact same feelings for her as I do my other sister. I'd also advise you to never refer to her as his half sister for two reasons. The first is you could make her feel like she somehow doesn't mean as much to him and I assure you that's not the case. The second is your friend may perceive any comments from you about this as you think it's ok to possibly treat her bad because "she's only his half sister".

While at the same time if your good friends with him there is a reason. He likes you, probably has a high opinion of you and trusts you. The last thing makes it incredibly important that you talk to his sister to make it clear you have to tell him the status of you relationship. Let him know you care for her, want to make her happy, and treat her right. This situation has to be one where you jump in head first or not at all. You can't became friends with benefits with your best friends little sister. Now having friends with benefits with three sisters on the other hand is very cool I can tell ya. ;D

[-HAWK-]

^^ Awesome advice. MattM and Simp have given some excellent advice.