I’ve thought about this quite a bit now that my son is getting older. I did a ton of stupid stuff as a kid!
I did a lot of things my parents didn’t know about and things they did know about especially when the school called and said your son has been suspended or when the police show up at your house. We never did anything disrespectful or damaging to peoples property, or steal. My criminal and driving records are clean as a whistle (thankfully).
I had a great life growing up, but I think I had a little too much freedom and my parents trusted me more than they should have, and didn’t ask enough questions. That being said you reach a point whether you’re an adult or a minor where you know what you’re doing and the potential consequences for your actions. I did a lot of dumb things, but I also think most do as a kid and to some extent it’s a part of growing up. If my son does stupid stuff (which he will) I hope he’s smart enough to not do things that could get him killed, seriously hurt, or in trouble with the law, and I hope he realizes the stupid stuff he’s doing and doesn’t do them again. If he does get caught I hope he’s ready to face the consequences.