My dad had the same cancer a little over a year ago, he is a liitle bit older than your dad. Dr's caught it very early, and he opted to remove his prostate to be on the safe side. Thank goodness the cancer was contained and the procedure was a success. There are several options to deal with prostate cancer. Survival rate is very very high as someone posted earlier. Although the survival rate is high. You tell anyone they have cancer and they fear the worst, which is understandable. Talk to him, taking him fishing and get his mind off it. My thoughts are with you and your dad.